The Most Preferred words- Courage and Encouragement

The WORDS I believe, is a BRIDGE of building relationships. The words are the ferrymen that bring the passengers from this ashore to the other with love and honesty and with kindness. Let me try to explain it in another way, the art of using word is ‘poetry’ I believe. The words is an instrument own by the amazing creatures of the world, the writers, the poets, they have the power or the authority to deal with the words and with the people.  There are some words that I like very much than the words that hurts people or my loved ones. COURAGE and ENCOURAGE are two of the words that I like to hear all the time than any other words. Yes of course except the amazing , magical four letter word that even the little ones like to hear from their parents or the parents like to hear it from their kids and I do not think that will have to explain that who else is like to hear this and from whom?. For some such words are forgotten words for some such words are memorable words or embraceable words and for a one or two or for few such words are feet aching because of walking from this place to that place of wings of life.

I know that it is not easy to develop courage within human mind but for some it flawlessly or flowfully comes and it is also not easy to learn to encourage. I guess people have their own ways of explaining understanding these or those words. Apart from its literary or technical meanings or understandings people have their own ways of categorizing words or in using them they show some differences. Some words are very much related to ones personal life.   To deal with your day today life you need to have courage. Sometimes you have to face unexpected problems such as health issues or any, one can name or can not name, common to all or limited to some issues. The level of encouragements that one may produce from their own within for their own good or for the benefit of others is differ from person to person. For a few, any, many or all encouragement is a positive feeling that they release to the outer world then one may anytime can embrace to stay away from discouragement or discouraging preparations.    

Maintaining ‘encouragement’ or at least try to gain it from anywhere or from the places that it always possible to gain or comes as packages or luggage are not always impossible. There are people, worldwide that always think of not letting down, pulling backwards ‘always muttering hey you are a woman/man that have this and that of issues therefore you never will come out of the situations you are in but look the we enjoy life we have no urinary or stomach or any psycho social issues no never economic we can afford to pay for any or many things some say such things to the ones that they really do not care but not forgetting to keep their own dear and near ones on top ( this is not bad one must always encourage their loved ones when ever they do engage in something good . For some such things I am not encouraging.    

What can one do when they have the feeling, perceptions, attitude of no courage to deal with the situations that they are in ? There are certain days that you can not ask help even from a relative they may have many important things, major to attend even if they can help you for one or two times  can you expect  help from them forever unless he or she is your life partner or from a close person. 

 

You have to have courage to encourage someone. The day you lose your COURAGE you will lose everything. The lessons you learn in your day to day life can sometimes give you courage and a hope to live. COURAGE I still have to face the ones that come and say before me or from behind do things from behind I can face I am not a failure no I am not a victor either there are things that I still have to learn how to pick and choose things from a garmental or governmental outlets, fancy outlets, from the word manufactures, word dictionaries, bibliographies, no way I can read their faces but the things that they revel or express places and people. Therefore I am not yet a victor or a successor, winner but I may can reach up to that level but never never or ever harming ones inner side or outer side of life because I know how hurting such things are. 

   

Yes some certainly collate courage from every lesson that they learn at any cost. Some people do not have courage to admire or appreciate other people’s good desires of doing good things, Intelligence, skills, talents, and all the other good qualities of the people that belong to ‘not dear or near ones or loved or beloved categories of people. And remember at the same time some people do not have COURAGE to accept their weaknesses; jealousy, arrogance, dishonesty,  and all other bad human qualities but some I believe always have the courage to point the finger at other people.

IF you hurt anyone he or she will lose courage or faith in them.  Don’t let them worry too much please ENCOURAGE them to live happily whatever problems may arise in their life. Whether it is related to love or tears, money or trust, why worry or lose your courage of something that others don’t accept or believe and has no value at all? You have to have courage to forget even if they ignore you, show you how invaluable you are compared to the ones they know from childhood or from their trade or social or cultural close dealings or if they do not accept what ever the good things you do for them. Even if they do not Please don’t hesitate to tell them or others what ever you feel good about them. Remember you have to have courage to do so this will applicable to any relationship you maintain friendly or opposite.  You have to have COURAGE to deal honestly in any relationship you maintain Some I believe, no doubt have the COURAGE to protect their loved ones forever I am sure you can ENCOURAGE the people who have loads of COURAGE in what ever the work they engage in. Do you think that you have the courage to do so? ……….

An ENCOURAGEMENT would give you a hope to live a hope in everything you do.

We, people make mistakes that is natural, still, please encourage the people who try to change themselves by choosing the correct path, street or avenue in what they do please do not discourage the kids when they break all the toys and things that they get as gifts from their parents to see how the inner sides have been formulated  then they might take such learning things their own ways towards a good or worldly important innovations. Encourage your kids and kids of others, students yours and of all this and that of all universities when they come up with new ideas and innovations it is not that you are discouraging your people but you need to do it more but in a very careful manner. The armatures of all kind Even during the ears that you encounter that few or some do not have courage to encourage people of that kind please at least use your words in a very careful manner ………

Life is full of new adventures, full of unexpected situations events, suddenly come in different picture or an image real or unreal unbelievably expected or unexpected ways before you in many different forms.  Sometimes you have to ‘think before you leap’ what do you think do you think that I m trying to discourage you? ………. No, Never….. I have no COURAGE to do so……..

Sometimes I have no COURAGE to listen to other people when someone says ‘you are wrong’ or if someone says ‘STOP THIS’ when I m doing something wrong to someone or harassing someone by disturbing continuously when they are engaged in some other important work  fortunately I still have the COURAGE to understand those weaknesses at least later.  Now how do you feel? Feel like encouraging me though I am not near or dear like your sister, brother, friend that is a sign of a good human being  

Some people have to have COURAGE to ENCOURAGE other people in every good thing they do even if they do not belong to the list of their loved ones Fortunately our people, mighty soldiers of all three forces, with the help of our giant hands of the president Mahinda Rajapaksa, including the defense secretary of Sri Lanka had saved enough COURAGE to fight against the LTTE yes, I know what you are thinking right now  Not every one went to the battle field  I was trying to say that the whole country  morally and emotionally was with the team and tried to ENCOURAGE the team every possible way The people of our country know that pretending is and really doing something is totally different.

And we the Sri Lankans are very happy about the COURAGE that they all had until they achieve their target. Every time I see them on TV I noticed how brave they are and how brave when they talk about their achievements they never said anything to discourage their nation or their colleague soldiers. 

Sometimes you watch nice stage dramas, television dramas, films of all kinds but you do not know or see the people behind the success of these things Some I believe do not notice the names of these people even if it appears on the screens  There were also some other people who had the courage to encourage all those who were in the battle field inside country and the people worldwide. That is media, the newspapers, the writers, mass media. Human beings are generally of that kind they forget things very easily. the courageous writers wrote each and everything to save and encourage our people. They use all the words possible to do so 

 I know that we have enough media personalities including the writers who have loads of courage to fight bravely against those enemies outside country. They have written enough of them and I know that they have not finished fighting I believe their pens still have enough inks to do so But sooner or later few of the local enemies or the other enemies will have to accept their faults. I hope that one day they will develop courage within them and accept their faults and have the courage to say SORRY.  I am sure all the kind hearted people across this Island will encourage them and thank them for saying s.

I am amazed and I personally believe that most of  our country personalities have the courage to fight against the international big people who damage or tarnish our country’s reputation with out thinking about safety of their lives including the writers of our era I m sure our people still have the COURAGE TO SALUTE TO THOSE WHO WENT TO BATTLE FIELD WITH COURAGE AND THOSE WHO STAYED IN COLOMBO AND FOUGHT ALONE AGAINST EACH AND EVERY PERSON WHO TRIED TO COME BLOCKING THEIR WAY even without getting any recognition for their contribution But it is sad that some people have the courage to accept the awards or the trophies that were given to them with out even stepping to areas that they should be visiting.  

YOU have I have, they have we all have some encouragement abilities that we should be maintaining or should be promoting within  and then releasing them to the outer world we live.

Have an encouraging day !

A COMPLETE MEAL FOR A HEALTHY, NO ALERGIES, APPETITE FUL LIFE

This morning ( the day that i started writing this note ) I was preparing ‘our lunch’ there were few things of different colours and tastes were ready for cooking. 

i was thinking of a complete meal -a menu of a healthy look and richful in nutrients, few types food came in to my mind. but before i touch my pots,pans and plates, knifes and spoons only to use for safety purposes- meaningful and no alergyful let me share with you some my inner thoughts that came in to the surface of my brain at this moment. this explanation of mine do not follow any particular order in expressing mealy of my type therefore i can assure none of you feel no appetite to eat :) 

I thought though we grow or cultivate fruits or vegetables, yams  separately in different areas and places, countries, under different climate or weather conditions, different soil conditions there is a one particular place where they all meet each other ‘ in the kitchen or in the dining areas’ our place of sharing’

So I thought of writing a complete ‘vegetarian meal adding non veg menu for non veg menu prefer friends (sea or other wise preferences – food) non veg if you like’ a meal that shows a kind of ‘we live everywhere and this and that of places of this country and world but come to a certain place to say and show look ‘we are one we have no gender or skin tone, ethnic or religious differences’. Some of us lived earlier under the authority of ‘Christian farmer in Australia and some of us lived at the outlet whole sale next to the Mohomad Ali Khan and Khaleel Gibran’s, a little dhal packaging house close to Buddhagaya,  

Thinking of better meal for all kind of age and position holders (children, youth, adults, and old and too old people I had to do when we were studying ‘home economics’ at school. Ms Shanthi Dahanayke (one of my favorite teachers at Girls high school –Kandy back then) she was truly and very particular about the veggies, fruits, and other vital vitamin holders that we select thinking of all adequate and necessary nutrients for a ‘meal we write adding ‘every possible vital ingredients to give a healthy flavor not unhealthy value and then keep them under ‘should control when ever necessary ‘hearth of many hearts, mothers and caretakers, love to cook gangs, want to learn how to cook youngsters, teenagers, and for some kollo ( young boys, guys)even. 

When you notice that the colours that smiles at you sitting and relaxing all around the rounded plate of ‘meal of unity’ saying look ‘no harm happened I am even safe after facing the heat of you loved hearth that was made in Sri Lanka or in India, Pakistan, Korea the soil of the children love so much ‘Changumi’s, the Jackie Chang’s and Jet Lee’s land – China, or in Sophia Loren’s and Bridget Bados, Margaret Thatcher’s, the land where the official residence of # 10,Downing street decides this and that of their people and sometimes takes this and that of other decisions that affects the world outside. or any hearth or stove made in the lands where all houses of Operas or Dramas, theaters can be found  home lands or motherlands.

Rice ( polonnnaruwa)

Kos mellum ( Kos from Siyabalanduwa)

Beet route (rathu ala, from Nuwara Eiliya)

If you are going to make this curry giving it some gravy look take some cocnut from pol thrikonaya ( the coconut triangular) or limiting your buying destination only to Kurunagela also may be it is possible to buy them from ‘Dambulla’

Gotukola sambole ( gotukola =green leaves locally popular) add not too much but adequate few drops of Lime from Dehiattakandiya

Tuna or Balaya from South or some 250 or 500 grams of tank fish from Kala Weva or Mahakanadara weva ( weva = man made tanks)

( when cooking add necessary bit of salt from Puttalam or from Hambantota)

You have plenty of ‘desserts choice following are desserts choice for you to select

·        An apple (from a very fresh farm of Australia or EK POOL DO MALE land – India)

·        A whole cup full of Ice cream manufactured with all care and protection in the land of Iphel- France plus adding some dates from KSA.

·        A do nut but don’t go nut type of dessert  manufactured in the land ( Germany) which Adolph Hitler was born and then changed the order of living not only of Nasi’s but also the people of all around the world.

·        Some cherries or Olives from any land of any part of the world

·        A huge cup of CURD from Ruhuna ( Ruhunu , Maya, Pihiti the old eras of categorizing the ruling provinces for its easiness of ruling and commanding, ordering)

·        Any sweets that comes via or through the land of Japanese or Afghanistan and then go to Pakistan to view the house of Imran Khan to see how he is spending his valuable moments and contributing his knowledge of cricket these days to all cricket love fans and players- amateurs  and then come straight away to our country – Sri Lanka.

Let me analyze a bit of things that we generally add when preparing or before keeping them on the hearth that has flame plus heat, warmness.

Rice – everyone knows but let me explain a little about few things. My purpose here is not to teach you how to cook because I too do not know how to cook my sister sometimes says J ( but I do not trust her here) but to explore our, mine too thinking towards ‘ how various things that we like or dislike sometimes meet at a certain point and become friends for at least some time to come and then go searching different flavours of life towards different directions of their own choices, in and out of this world such things ‘ we may not have thought before but has some value if you think a while’

When preparing the place and the pot of rice ( empty) before you filling it with some rice putting some liters or amount of water as required + salt little later.  You need to first remove all the sand and stones if you do not find any notices mentioned in the bag of rice you bought ‘gal weli iwath kara etha’ – stones and sand were removed’

And then do the needful as you wish but respecting the international rules of cooking J and preparing your meal of happiness.

 put them on the stove and start cooking and do not forget here that you need to control your stove turning it towards right or left side to ‘reduce the brightness or control flame of heatness’ if that produces too much of power showing to the one who spends most of her time in cooking and washing plates J that may burn your pot of rice.

We do not produce salt here in the central hills areas or in all the parts of the country. There are specific areas where you see ‘salt factories’ let‘s say that we bring them from Hambantota and do you think that we can cultivate paddy in the coastal areas no to my knowledge. But we know that we can buy those products everywhere of our country. Thanks to the trading systems and patterns local and world that has so far introduced or innovated not only since the day that they become so fond of ‘exchange things with goods’ or things for money or with currencies.

Green chilies 1 -2 you can add depending on your choice.

Pepper – depends on how much spicy flavoured food you like’ – I warn do not take a handful of pepper you will not be able to eat it. 

J you know I talk things sometimes of my own experiences my own dealings sometimes I have with my own department – kitchen ( nangi’s too in some occasions J

I am giving these instructions for you to follow if you are interested in preparing TUNA or BALAYA from south or some 250 or 500 grams of tank fish from Kala Weva or Mahakanadara weva ( weva = man made tanks)

Garlic - again not too much there is always required and international measurements in cooking I do not know about dieting. And also to give your kos mellauma a little enrich look.

Karapincha – curry leaves a few leaves

Mustard – tikak ( a little for what I do not know in what or for what check with your family chef please if you want more information as to how and when to use mustard)

Kottamalli – tikak ( again we use some in preration of thuna paha ( a kind spicy ingredients that we make adding three or five spices together – Kottamalli, Sooduru, Mahaduru ( a very little too much will spoil your thuna paha ), cinnamon, karambu neti ( I can’t remember the English term now)  again can you please check with Chef LOID OPATHA of Taj Samudra (?)

If you use too much of those things expecting to have a ‘more tastier mallum you will not be able to eat. Think of the right ‘quantity’ I think in cooking sometimes (traditional ways) we measure things mentally not using a scale like we use when ‘make a cake @ home)

Ok let me forget the how to cook and what to add for a moment because your alone can even further explore your knowledge towards such things because cooking is not a hidden book of art of cooking anymore

Think of the colours of ingredients and meals, food items used or you prefer using

Pol /pol kiri – white

Kottamalli, suduru, mahaduru – earth brown

Pepper – black

Garlic – white

Karapincha leaves – green

Kos – yellow

Mustard – chocolate brown

Beet routes ( dark red or little purple mixed red I am not good in identifying colours not because I am colour blind or something I do not have the colour code chart with me now J

Think of the pot you are going to use ‘stainless steel one’ clay pot or a silver plated cooking utensils you can use what is available in your kitchen

One thing one has to remember if you are to prepare ‘pickles Malay or local’ never use any stainless steel or any iron touch pots or plates always use know how to face ‘acidic stuff very well kind of a pot’ (you know vinegar is kind of a thing that interacts differently with acidic or steel or stainless stuff- surfaces, pots (very well known definition of cooking attached with some scientific rules why should I explain it to you)

So one has to keep away or stay away from all the harmful not good for your stomach or kidneys kind of flavours and ingredients + when your family doctor says ‘you must not eat such eatery with sugar or honey also for some too much salty food and short eats – instant food items not bring health and peace to your health agendas.

So a meal is a kind of a good kin if you try to understand them very well before associating and such a kin may come to rescue you from any hazards food related only when you are very well know or aware of their number – phone before dialing. Have their number very well saved and better remember their numbers well before dialing them seeking or asking for help.

 have a unity meal life ahead ! 

A few days ago ………… I met Manathunga Aarachchige Premawathie of Veluvana Lane

We meet different people at different moments, at any or many occasions, meetings, places - known to us or not known to us, during planned or unplanned or no plan moments. 

Some people we do remember and some don't. 

Some suddenly come to surface during expected or unexpected moments or during ones intervals of life.

So the meeting moments seldom or random sometimes one can not really predict unless one plans. Some meetings just begin at 'Hi' plus replys of Hi's from the other side, 'levels or floors and then proceed to its maximum levels, and in between these Hi/s and ‘Hi how are you these days' to finally “i can die for you moments of ones life’ ‘ sending some reeds of flowers to say how much you are sad about the ‘no more’ moments that you heard from others of the ones you knew or known for years. Until you reach all above stages you meet any or many people.

Sending invitations, sympathy or wishes to the ones we know for their Birth Days, anniversaries, or on no more moments we do also in many or any ways.  the places of meetings are equally important or memorable when it comes to ‘sustainability’ of the friendships bonds or all kind of work or otherwise trade, juice, or lending and borrowing books to read and returning after reading without harming – relationships. Sudden meeting places or plan meetings are different today compared to then.

Today we have many chances of meeting different people or not different to us people or hold similar interest people that happens via all kind of social or cultural networks.

Meeting places of people are not always the ‘bonded with bricks and cement walled and tiled with love places there are other places too can’t people meet via the 'Books' similar to life, books 'easy' to 'understand' or hard to absorb, lovely to read, or else excellent to share, so good to know kind of many and any ways. Can.

How can we forget that we also meet people via loku kuda ( big or small) or 'punchi theaters', who does not know Elphinsten though they ay do not know Einstein the scientist (is this the correct way to write his name?) ,Lumbini, Sudharshiya, Nelum Pokuna, YMCA, YMBA, YOUTH centers, Arena _ Katugastota, WEMBLY - mahanuwara, all Halls - towns, village, city, Motels or at hotels five or what ever star ways, halls conferences, organizations – world, Vijaya Chithragaraya - Dalugama, Big House - lake house, other houses - rupavahini or Swarnawahini, Under or around Big Ben, Buckingham or Shanthivihar (Thunmulla) sacred Bahirawakanda or Sri Dalada Maligawa, Siddhartha Pura. You can add the places you know that comes to your mind.

So I have seen and met few ‘Manathunga aarachchige Premawathi/s in my life time, during here and there of my journeying from this place to that places of my carrier and otherwise.

They are so special because everyone is special or they have shown me proved that they are special in many ways when there were time allocations for meetings ‘research’ or research, data collating, key persons – big and organizations, members of families, from many and many from all corners of this our country.

The people whom I meet, some little different to me and different to my friends in many ways and some are very similar to all of us or few of us, the ones I know similar or different not just because of the way they dress, or the way that they cut their neck areas of the sari blouse or any casual or party blouses, not because the way they talk or address people or including to their close ones, dear and near ones, the way they walk or the brands of clothes or shoes they wear, the mobiles use, or lap tops they use, the mode of transport, the abilities to show how powerful they are on roads, can change the colours send instantly their choices to drive ways, also they are different not just because of how proud of the things that they own or have close to them, mode of traveling, perhaps not because of such things.    

Then why they are special like everyone else in the world?  ‘Shall I note and shall believe that they have nothing hidden, within not like most of us some of them are like all of us? Do not get me wrong I am not going to classify them or categorize them keeping them away from ‘me kind of people, their kind of or our all kind of people or I am not going to emphasize that there is any, many or some differences ‘due to availability of money in wallets or number of credit cards in hand, thinking of bank balances etc I have observed many other things in them in relation to differences and similarities that most of them have shown to me during the hours of our meetings professional and outside professional agendas. Like some of us or most of us they too have the ability to do, act or react the way they like and if they have something to say they too think that they should say it straight to who ever they are dealing with.

And it is not that they always right or wrong on their perceptions of many things in the society we live, doing makeovers from era to era changing our hair styles, changing our colours of life, changing our ways of thinking, giving this and that explanations analysis over many things that we have learnt over the years gone by reading or going and registering at the institutions of life related education systems.

May be they are partial or impartial in the ways that they do things  like we do sometimes don’t you agree that we always get the side of the ones we like we just ignore the little, little errors that our close ones make during our, their day today dealings with people, society. How can we think that they are not like us or they are ahasata polawa wage wenas’ we don’t say such things. They too have and own dear and near ones like all of us, they too have thei own ways of interacting, communicating, dealing with their life matters or people around then.

Perhaps during your first meeting with such people (if you are not use to such meeting or meetings with such categories of people out side to your own peer or near groups) you may feel that they talk to us in a little arrogant or ignorant way.

I am not sure why or whether such things happen because of the divisions of labour therories, or the divisions of resources handlings, or is it because of the rupee value floating from this side to that side of the world of economy or because often the Euro, pounds or dollars becomes kings and queens of the world.

I am not sure. Do not misunderstand me I am not against of any of the existing ‘currencies’ or the systems of the economy’- world. There were many years that I earned my pays in dollars. There are things that we meet or see or have to live under ‘things are not under our control’ there is always ‘a way that things happen in this world full of behaviours , attitudes, perceptions – holders different, businesses, there is always ‘world economical agendas that we have to face and accept.  Among and during all these ways of living and desires of world we meet Premawathi and Dayawathi, Biso maenika, kind of human. Not only in or along Veluvana lanes also in many other lanes and paths roads of the world along side of tar or concreted big roads, highways, near cemeteries or near hotels five or any number stars, near palaces or shanties, near bars of small rooms, big buildings, counters and shelves,places of ‘we get the responsibility of you losing your control of mind, you lose your kidneys and lungs of not only yours but also of your near and dear ones’   

Some Premawathis you find or some Dayawathi’s you may find in the top class places though their faces covered with this and that of make ups or lifts and hidden or covered with highly expensive clothing materials. I am thinking how to categorize people putting them in to this box or that box of strikes periods or this and that of normal or abnormal life flowing periods of life of all of us. Such things are highly difficult, categorizing or layerizing analyzing people we know or we meet for few minutes or for life long years.

It is not always highly qualified certificate holders who has the abilities of discussing or see through life in a very meaningful or very analytical way there are such people above mentioned like Dayawathi, and men too though the life modules that they have read may differ from each other.

 Some of them are like little but highly trustable, tall in good work, mature in presidenting, ‘credit societies’ that always come to help ‘have money difficulties in life groups’.   

This is not a ‘all are same’ world and everyone is equal in qualities, or in their ways of living , handling lives are same world. You meet different people not only in your journeys but also in the ‘taking a little fruit juice –rest moments’ stopping somewhere to get some raisings or creams and shampoos of our lives.   

And occasionally we meet people not only Daya or Prema, Natasha, Priyadharshana- kind also you may meet Athula, Harsha, Sampath and friendly and very hospitable Vajiraani/s at some places you are very familiar with or places such as  ‘THE VALLEY below' centers of poetry maintains by two good people - namely Buddhadasa Galapappatty and MALINI GO WIN AGAIN' . At this places they talk of human side of people, different psychological and physiological sides of people nights and darkness’s of their lives, calculating the way that their minds captures different moments, meetings and agendas etc of the ones they meet or see.  

Also you may hear that others discuss at such this places or at not known or have not gone and visited places of our lives ' 'When he is not here, 'question to the judge, Oh good gentleman listen to my tale of woe', Kind of things.

There are also places that the educated and know the subject well always gather and rather discuss or criticize, analyze, weigh or measure without looking in to the person directly because the eyes are cover with a piece of cloth but just listening to the ‘facts presents at or before them’.

Some occasions you hear ‘top who always sit above to ‘bad (?), guilty, arrested, bailed out, charged, sentence to death and also above ‘categorized as not guilty, released, no fines or charges etc.

You may also hear very familiar voices or sentences such as ‘ORDER ORDER ORDER’ ………………… at such places so ethical follows a certain and specific books written by any or many here or there.

You may also hear not in your dreams but in your eyes are wide open daily moments and dealings of life that some women or men screams within or from their outside something similar to below

Your honour this woman has something to say, and she says ………………..

'He is not guilty 

Cos he obeyed your law

It was me

Who broke the law'

Meeting people or places are different we discussed You also meet kade aiya, Premasiri or ‘Principle of Kumarigama- village school (Ampara) Latha Akka of Southern province (I have read a about couple of years (?) ago that elder’s home that has taken all attention of very intelligent heart ‘Irangani Serasinghe who visited some people in need place/Galle along with a good heart. Did they manage to build a space that they were thinking of building attaching to their buildings of meetings existed earlier?)

'Premawathi', 'Dayawathi', 'when both were born under the same sky' 'both are daughters' of this world and neither of them are 'no more a girl child' 'My question' is why we sometimes, in some moments, meet up with children, people – full or one or two at some we do not like to see them there places  

the dirty gown torn in places

Hair not oiled for days

An old paperplate in hand

Gazing at the restaurant doors looking for their 'Midday Meal'

i return to my cell

Finish the morning meal

A roti received as alms

So Manathunga Aarachchige Premawathi how did you meet them and how did you get to know them 'Buddhiy'a (intelligence) and 'GO Win' group how did you feel when you meet them for the first time in your life time. so you had nothing to hide you wanted to say everything to them. Did you also tell everything as to how you meet the ones from your own area and outside to your area that come seeking your help to take a dram and some money for ‘athamaaruwa’ or to buy some coconut a kilo of rice with some parippu ( dhal)

(Athamaruwa =some amount of money exchanged with friends, relatives, neighbours when they in need of money. I guess the experts of language may agree (?)

I feel that some of such lives are no frilled and not exaggerated lives of this world compared to the lives of most of us that we live doing things like in a competitive way thinking of doing some harm to the ones ( not always or everyone = human I know) who slaps or hits for a reason or never for a reason. 

'Darkness' because the Jeweled lamp stolen

Is it on a new day like this

A village became one big funeral

Caught in a bomb at Kaebitigollawa

Is it on a new day like this

All kith and kin husbands wives

Were interned together

Homeless fathers and mothers

Were shot dead

( who needs explanations of that era above explained in poetic way that we lived with fear? No one I guess)

 you know at such this and that of various places generally a lot of people gather to discuss this and that of life such as 'after the boat shattered' , the last poem 'on the day when i am no more',' Bhikku walking for Alms.

  

   

 [ Above is my way of analysis on the book that took my all attention and I saw that he was Gazing at me sitting at the corner of the ‘new arrivals’ of the house of Sarasavi ( Universities) (book shop) in Nugegoda. I thought of give him a walk - ride through footpath towards minds of my friends who catch and hold, & try to read me when ever they have some off from busy schedules – all kind. – this is the book of ‘ Buddhadasa Galappatty ‘THE VALLEY Below’ selected poems translated by Malini Govinnage. Let me tell you that I like the art work of cover page of the book and the art work- paintings inside a lot, illustrated by Mr.Shantha K Herath   ]

Teeny weeny tips for a highly Pidururthalagala, Alphs, Everest benefits

first and foremost let me not forget to note that what ever i write here also applicable not only to others but also for me ' the things that i suggest and write here are kind of a alarm & reminders for me because i generally make the same mistakes :( that i try to discuss here today. and i know these are not the things that you all are unaware of :)

tip 01 

solution for tiny disputes over one rupee coins :( 

Do you generally maintain a coin purse ? if so that is not little but a lot useful for all my co -bus travelers. i know that the minimum bus fair is nine rupees ( Rs. 9/=) and what we most of the travelling mornings or after work travelling occasions do is we just give our dear conductors Ten rupee note ( Rs. 10/=) to get the ticket to travel minimum traveling distance by bus. both parties are aware of the minimum bus fair, meaning the travelling partners and the 'take us to the destination that we want to move ahead' parties know all the necessary details in general that they should aware of. so when ever our dear conductors forget ( due to so busyness in the mornings and afternoons after work travelling occasions) to give us the balance of ten rupee note that we gave them. Do you think that we should or can blame them for that totally. I guess NO.
reason is that how about our responsibility (lets assume)  in giving exact amount to purchase the bus ticket which is easy for both parties. 

benefits this saves and protects our good mood in the morning to afternoons and even after. we do not have to complain or have little arguments with our dear friends for unnecessary matters. 

tip 02 

manage your time properly and efficiently, beneficently.  
  
when ever there is inefficient time management takes place every things to be covered or done within a day will get spoil you the outcome of such days will be you will have to work according to a 'no rest full, stressful, hungryfull ( sometimes), notea moments through out the whole day  which  is never a good thing. i do not have to tell or note here. 

so the tip is to have a time table :) and work accordingly ( what a advise no i am sure that none of you have heard this before :) so the benefits would be you will enjoy a no hungry, with tea, no stressful, rest full, goes everything smoothly and well days always.  

tip 03
for a healthy life :), do not skip any of your meals, do not stay hungry and do not do any 'dieting unless your knowledge parties tells you to do so.

i remember our Aravinda of Viragaya ( Mr Sanath Gunathilaka) followed his doctors instructions before going in to scripted advises given by ' Our memorable good hearted "Mr.Tissa Abeysekara'. i am not aware of what sarojini must have told him afterwards the day that she got to know of his illness i can not remember at this moment the things that she told him the day she came to visit him.  'did she tell you that one should take care of their health every moments and occasions? what is your next plan are you busy these days with your next script sir ? after once upon a time? we do not expect same kind or pattern of a creation from you next time sir.

tip 04 

for pre - plan schedules for no  tirefull but flowfull days of work

anything to be distributed tomorrow plan it today get the help of all when ever necessary and please do not forget to compensate when ever they ask you some help not just to pay back the owes of helps offered, given also because we all need some kind of help from others, because there is no one man show gives better outcomes. Even Gee Anura, Sandakadapahana, Kampana, Swetha Raathriya,'Sa', etc etc all comes and organizes or organized under 'good team category organizations' 'good teams of all layers and levels. 

benefits  :) 

a successful, happyful learning and otherwise outcomes :)

there are many teeny weeny tips for a mountainful of benefits i do not think that i can write every single thing that i know here, today let me write the things that i know later this or next week.

this note is to be continued ..........

have a good day !





  

Poetry My Way ( ii) - NIGHTS .....................

rich in thoughts
poor in believing
good in sharing
lack in understanding

full in trusting
heavy in bearing
light in viewing
better in explaining
narrow in walking
wide in ferrying
tuft in accepting
exceptional in journeying
proud in wording
pride in working
thoughtful in calculating
resilient in adopting
cultural in painting
magnificent in weaving
incredible in reading
brilliant in respecting
imbalance in balancing 

poor in arguing 
ethical in formulating 
unclear in deciding
decidable in deciding
minus in giving
pluses in taking 
nights
a module in life 

for a very few 'PEACE & HARMONY' is a headache

Navaneedan pillay who is she ?

is she an actress ? No i guess i have not seen her image on good hearted screen of cinema or of any little theaters, screens, stages.

who is she then?

she is according to my knowledge is among a very few who thinks that peace and harmony is a headache.  

read the articles and every piece of information written and given to the world by trust worthy media partners and all good personalities that always attached with 'accurate' and true information that can see through any media hard or soft and the transparency is in its high level ( do not forget here the trust worthy parties only) media and trust worthy and trustful AUTHORITIES of my country that take the responsibility of the content with no issues. 

i am educated on the name above 'Navaneedan' through very trusted media and journals, journalist and similar of my country than the other media groups because i get more chances to read and watch ours than the media groups outside to my country. it does not mean that i am not interested in such parties, media or the information that i get from them is not important.  

to note here very frankly i was not very fond of very political or similar happenings here locally or worldwide earlier compared to now. Oh except 'all terror mafia' information. We were updated with all the necessary information that the people of my country should know or should get from the responsible media and journalists of my country and the very relevant authorities who were directly dealing online and offline, handling everything and everyone necessary in the processes of 'eradicating totally and forever' the terror '  LTTE the ill willed, ruthless outfit. 

As a citizen, bread and born, educated on this our country i know that all above mentioned parties had nothing else in their hearts and minds but the idea and allways good intention of saving and protecting the people from the 'terror of all sort' - the LTTE. They had nothing else in their minds and hearts than the idea of  protecting the soil that we have and own, the territories of 'all people', all ethnics, all religions, all identities.

i know and even i can confess that i may have missed all 'what she is been doing over last few years after we winning over the most ruthless terror the LTTE because i never felt that kind of terror after we won the humanitarian war against the outfit-ruthless i have mentioned in all most all the sentences i wrote. 

i cant even imagine of  facing such a situation again no one wants or expects such situations to appear in the country that now we live so much in peace. Any doubts ? No remove such perceptions, ideas, attitudes from your brains. As a citizen i can assure the word that we hear no bombing ( for sure the world know this i know that too) or 'the sounds of ambulances that reach the hearts and minds of health facilities of my country from every ten second or every half an hour, or hour, half a day, day, etc, everyday that we heard of news that most ( families) were losing their hearts and minds who were sleeplessly spending their moments and lives , times without coming home to see their dear and near ones )in the areas of our 'forces - good intention were fighting against the world's most 'inhumane terror group back then. 

The drama was over now we do not want their ill willed scripts to produce any creations giving big names ( no way) or the actresses ( so ugly and BAD) like Navaneedan Pillais to perform here in this land that we live or anywhere of the world supporting terror poisoned groups taking her ill willed idea along with weoponized  scripts where ever or everywhere that she is so madly journeying ( the script written not using good hearted ink but spoiled, poisoned, ill willed the type of ink that only the terror groups use)they/she may have already already showed it to the world ( yeah the scripts can be shared with others for viewing purposes' but i never think that she or her terror group will get any awards such as world's best 'script', or the best production award not from any German, Indian, France, Hollywood, Ohhhhh not even from 'Raigam tele awards, Derana tv Awards, Sarasaviya, and the Signies, and also i can assure the world that they will not receive any awards from OCIC - good will organization, award giving for a good purpose parties.

i have read how she has done her home work and how she has been using her data manufactured by her own company of research to finally submit at the 'i never think that they are fools or uneducated group, organization to believe and accept the script written by this 'she thinks that the world is blind and illiterate to understand her ill so ill, poisoned with most harmful facts 'scripts' full of her own poisoned manufactured using her own dreamy but not realityful mentalities (was there a dead line given for her? i doubt).

so dear our media and journalist how many of handsome facts that she has included in to the script ( manufactured) she Navaneedan ( sin) PIllai wrote without knowing that 'our people are awake 24 hours of the day' they do not go to sleep until they eradicate ( the remaining ill willed parties that always think sleeplessly how to ruin or to harm the we won through tears and losing everyone, everything that were very close to our most inner places ' HUMANITARIAN WAR'.      

     

  SO WHO EVER THERE OR HERE PLANING TO RUIN WON WITH INDESCRIBABLY DIFFICULT WAY  'THE 'PEACE' I LIKE TO SAY ON BEHALF OF ALL OUR PEOPLE, PLUS ALL GOOD HEARTED PEOPLE WHO ALWAYS SUPPORTS AND EXPECTED TO SEE PEACE AND HARMONY IN THIS COUNTRY WE WERE BORN  the soil that we are destined and have done enough of good deeds to be born in FORGET AND THINK OF HOW YOU CAN SUPPORT TO MAINTAIN THE PEACE AND HARMONY THAT IS STILL SUSTAINING AND I AM SURE THAT NOT ONE CAN HARM THE 'SUSTAINABILITY OF PEACE SITUATION OF THE COUNTRY NO NEVER.

Also i like to note here that  DO NOT EVER THINK OF SUPPORTING ANYONE WHO WANTS TO RUIN THE FLOWS AND FEELINGS, WINDS, WATERS, EARTH, SOIL, ALL COLOURS OF PEACE AND HARMONY.

TRY AND HAVE SOME PEACEFUL FEELINGS AND ATTITUDE IN YOUR BRAIN NAVANEEDAN PILLAI AND TRY FEEL THE DIFFERENCE YOU WILL FEEL INDESCRIBABLY PEACEFUL NOT FROM OUTSIDE FROM YOUR OWN WITHIN.