a party ' Saadaya'

party marriage dowry these have become all time all era debatable subjects. Dowry in some or most of the societies is a big issue for the parents of the girl child mostly. some countries the women have to deal with this and in few other countries the men have to deal with this subject.  dowry still a subject that has the power to decide the 'fate' of a girl child i noticed and and have learnt this. a cattle as a dowry or a a vehicle yard as a dowry or a any other property  as dowry dealings all these depends on the interests and values of the particular (two) families involved.     some share these things in currencies or rupee notes , in numbers some say this is the number we need or this number of acres we need or this number of cattle we need give a vehicle or give a trade. there are some they do not say that they need any but know to measure the dowries they get automatically depending on the families they deal with or they carefully study the families properties, inheritances what ever man or a woman owns and such things play the role of keeping the bonds together such dealings i do not know whether to consider as family bonding, currency dealings or financial bondage. anyways what ever parents owns or earns that purely goes to their children. anyways this a vast subject that has many facets to explore think or can write about.  

what ever i discuss here do not apply to all the societies that exists in this world.  

sorry for the inconveniences you friends face in reading following lines i m not able to translate  in to English. 

following is a poem that i wrote following 'poetry my way style, method  :)   i think some parties make life arrangements, some parties lead to partying the bonded or arranged bonds  or loving bonds, some parties last life long some bonds ends even before the parties organized ends, some parties party for a purpose with all good wines and dines including smiles unfortunately most of them ends with tears i like get - together parties than the parties that breaks the always together parties.   some forgets the ones who accompanied to the particular parties at the end of parties and mistakenly or purposely goes with the ones they meet as - new ( bonds) 

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