Seeking and Searchings of ones life

First of all I apologize for using this picture. I have no intention to insult anyone living, dead or gone missing. This is an effort to view a life in a different way, different facet of a life   

f.dvke.Su fyda f.dv.ekSu f.dvhdu f.dv.id.ekSu hk fï ish,a, ;=< iyiïnkO;d úúO;d  úIu;d olakg ,eîu mqÿuhg lreKla fkdjkafkah

tf,iskau fidhd hdu wia:dk.;ùu fidhd.ekSï fï PSjk .ukdrïNhkays iy .ukdka;hkaysos ksiel f,iu wmyg w;a ú|skg isÿjk oE fõ

Loosing, searching, collating, removing, building, disappearing, traveling, journeying and appearing all these are inevitable  

Seeking, searching I have experienced all these years of my life travelling

I have seen others searching the things they have misplaced or lost 

somewhere or at a place known to them  

Persons are different to objects

There is a difference between losing an object and loosing a person

Some times the seeker never meets, the ones lost, unless via such a notice

Notices are various

Some are death notices and some are other notices

To search the ones gone missing you may have to post a notice above is a such notice, I saw about a month or so back

If the notice is fresh and not torn or not collapsed we can easily read and can understand the content

I took this picture about one or two months earlier I don’t see the same notice there at the same place

The difference is that

I don’t know whether the person or the family who was looking for the one lost found the person again or not

Perhaps, you may never get a chance to find the ones you are seeking

Reason, someone else may stick their notices over to the ones you have previously pasted about the missing person

Then will you get any chances to find the person that you are looking for via a notice

Mostly YES, probably not

All depends on the strategy of searching or seeking the seeker or the searcher use

There may be many other ways to find the lost ones

What are they then?

Think and list, I am little tired of listing, questioning

Take the word tiredness

Tiredness may drag your life only for few hours or so but that is not a permanent thing if you take a life of an ordinary woman

Take me for instance all these I face, draggings due to personal tiredness again the change of lives again due to some other reasons

Music, this is the mostly used strategy of my life

Music the motivation factor, a good strategy to enhance or refresh ones life

There is always freshness too of ones life

Changing schedules or ways of looking at life events these may boost ones life

I have no close friends to talk or share something therefore my strategies I myself have to find

It is true that I don’t always use the most intelligent strategies of the universe to motive my self in my life

Some strategies are silly I do know that

But it is perfectly alright for me reason is for a woman who does not have much contacts to ask or say something that is a normal thing

I do have friends. They are now actually lives a different life. They have children and husbands to take care of , they have their carrier matters  it is always pardonable     

Some get fed up looking for the ones lost but some don’t stop ‘searching’ or looking for the ones lost

Why

Answers may depends on the person ‘worthiness of the person lost’

I have experienced all these within my Family, where I spent most my years and days. So I have enough of evidences and data to see through life and move ahead

 I don’t have to go around the world to look for data

Wish you all a useful & MEANINGFUL new year ahead!

Take care

we;eïyq kej;;a tjka oekaùulska ñi fidhd hkakd  tlsfkld uqK fkd.efi;s

;j;a úfgl wfhl= ke;a;gu ke;sùu fyda úfgl wm oek.kqfha fujka oE yryd muKlaoehs wfhla m%Yak flrejo Bg Tn lsis¯ mqÿu úhhq;= ke;

ukao

PSú;h hkq úfgl tjka yev;,j,ska hqla; jkakla jk fyhsks

;j;a úfgl Bg u;= msáka we,ù hk wfkl=;a oekaùï fya;=fjka fidhdhdu Tnyg wu;l jkakgo bv ;sfí

;j;a wfhl=f.a oekaùulg bv yir imhkakg fyda i<idoSug isÿùu Bg fya;=j jkakg mq¿jk

Hello companies how is everything these days

I normally like reading the posters along the roads. I think I have mentioned it several times  

Posters normally posts by many or any. Purposes and objectives are different to each other. Unfortunately I sometimes read only the posters to get a balance view on something I know that   I should read several different opinion holders. Then it is easier to weigh things or measure things. It is no point reading or listening to a one group or set of who ever hold same ideas or ideologies.

I sometimes become the conversation partners of our T, G and V of OUSL members of the department.

Today’s conversation was about MILK, MILK powder in particular

I thought it is good to re write something about companies (earlier I have written many things under the topic of ‘company’)   

I personally think that every company is important. Whether it is a two way company, small, medium company or a huge company it has a vast meaning.

Any company is important specifically for the people, workers, and members, sharers involved, including all top layers of the company or any companies.

I don’t know why I should talk about holding or loosing jobs, first and all other things later

May be it is because ‘worker’ or workers as a whole is important, this I have my within somewhere     

Loosing a job might cause some problems even on temporarily basis that will matter only when a company is going to close permanently

Paying compensation will not compensate or cover everything of the job loser

If there is a reason- fare enough to loose a job, due to any personal reasons such as weak performances of a worker, doing something to harm the company, to abandon the company then that is acceptable and the worker has to bear all the results of their wrong doings

Establishing any company is not an easier thing to do or to improve a certain company up to any level is not easier like drinking a glass of milk

To establish any company sometimes take years or even more. It is always the responsibility of the persons (top to bottom) involved to take care of any company

What market strategy is useful to be used is depends on the company aims, type of product, the importance it holds when it comes to the needs and wants of the customer   

Sometimes it is no point trying to sell fresh milk where there are enough of cattle farming families for them may be it is alright to sell cheese or butter if the customers prefers them

How many times a year you check the choices of the customers depending on the areas, in towns in cities choices may differ

I am thinking of the market research at this point of my essaying  

Do you normally talk to your dealers to know the customers choice

Dealer or the seller perhaps know what products sells most

So it is worth or wise to send more in number what is sellable than the things not sellable to the particular outlets or to the areas, gama or nuwara (town)

I think any company has to think of the financial levels of families of any village, community that you are aimed at specifically before trying to promote your product

Promotions one has to do very intelligently not blindly

I am just saying this

I have heard this many times

My mother used to say ‘don’t check the wallet of your father or mother thinking of taking any money from it without getting permission that is bad 

she was referring to the term stealing

So a company is a mother although it is always or mostly the fathers who establish companies than the mothers or the females

I think more and more females should get involve in business I guess they are not weak at all in managing any businesses

Apart from the mother company all other sub companies are the brothers and sisters no one should take a single rupee from any company other than the amount or the portion that is given to them legally or labour lawfully, according to the company agreements (the agreement between the employee and the employer)

No worker can steal any money thinking of nourishing personal pockets then everything or any company will vanish like bubbles including their personal jobs but the time duration that will take what ever to happen depends on the time taken to investigate or until others get to know what is going on within

Audits and monitoring will help to over come such any issues

.id lEu iy crdj lEu lshkafka fï f,dafla ;sfhk wm%sh;u lEu taj lk lk flkd f,v fjkj

l:d folla kE tal ;uhs ´k fldïmeKshl u<.u

Taking Bribery or selling any number of cartons of anything illegal way or from back doors or from secret windows, there is no second word that is the funeral of any company

I am just saying these things I am not specifically aiming at any company because I know no company structure, setting fully or totally

One thing that every involved must do is ‘love your company’, ‘respect your company’

Again every top company must respect all bottom companies

Then only any top member can expect respect from any other members

No company member should think of tarnishing the reputation the of the company (any company) that has earned through any number of years, since the first day of setting up the company

First it is important to maintain trust and respect within any company then only the others will follow the same. For instance if the customers know that there are some discrepancies, no unity within then customer may look the other side. There are many other sides in this universe not just one or two

So dear companies think before you act is a good way to protect any company

No company can hide things from any customer reason is that this universe now has become very small because of the technologies presently using by not only by the customers but also by the dealers

Customer’s blessing goes to all good companies to any company who are true to their companies

Take care of your companies it is not just responsibility of company owners it is a responsibility of a state as well

   

  

  

  

A company is not just important for the people involved also for the members outside to the companies   

Mature and immature deaths

What is a mature death?

I think it is comparative like everything else in this world.  One never can predict about the ways that a person embrace death or how death reaches the door steps

My today’s morning was a little tiring one

To overcome my tiredness I thought of viewing outside a bit. I opened our usual window. Nothing much to see other than the usual road users Pajeroes, marutis, BMWS, Honda’s and Bajaj’s

I turned towards the door and opened it. That was a much better idea, I thought later

There is our Jack Tree, our usual friend. I drag the chair towards the tree and sat so relaxly beneath the tree.

I felt amazingly relaxed, it was so cool there.

It is normal that I try to investigate the changes or the day to day freshness of the Jack tree

A panamala an immature fruit of jack just fallen down touching my shoulders, carelessly.

Is it a death, thought for a while?

There were many of them, immature ones all over the top floor where I was seated so relaxly

An immature death, what does it really mean?

Can a person who lives for years, a hundred perhaps or more face a mature death?

I doubt

I feel that we often try to behave like children or in an immature ways, without thinking too much of the complexities of life. In a way it is good. Then any matter will become something one should not worry  

Then all of a sudden we are trying to become mature, talk of mature things, use complex dialogues, and choose complex topics to elaborate and trying to analyze them the way we can. All these depend on the person I guess, life styles of human beings, again how a person take things in to their lives.  I know that these things are truly tiring topics people don’t talk much about these.  It is not easy for a living being to talk about death all the time thinking of reasons and results of lives   

What is the shape of a mature death? How am I to understand these?

What are the appearances of a mature death?

To know all these does a person has to face his/her real death, inevitable deaths

Do the half dead or the ones dying and living, dying and re birthing, the ones who face the same death circles every day or twice a week or annually don’t understand these things?

They do understand

I do understand

We all understand

But I don’t know how to draw it on apiece of a paper and show it to others or how to shape it before others

There nothing to get fun out of any experiences of others related to souls of a dead or what ever way one name a life of a dead, booth or any other ‘ Gandhabba’. All should stop insulting ones experiences, when someone is sharing an experience that is to enhance ones knowledge that is for future learners purposes, to expand ‘research lanes’. If I share something I do it under that condition thinking that others might learn something

There are things hidden behind every incident of lives.  Within something.  How others think of a life incident of an unknown or a known may differ from person to person.  What or how a community thinks about all these may not important for a gossiper or for a person who collate information for ill will purpose. But when it comes to ‘doing something with a unspoiled aim, an objective’ then there is a value in share something. Ones life experiences may help others to change their own lives if necessary or for their educational aims.  Some attitudes or perceptions of people might pull or push forward ones life along her or his life lanes.    

Ones perceptions, attitudes all these matters, those are factors, those are something to weigh not just life related incidents or experiences but facets of cultures, socio economic structures, standards of Asians or Europeans or of Africans

These things give us a huge picture of life styles or ways of thinking of people of a certain period, or era

And I guess there are no middle class or high class booths or holmans the only class I know is all class has to reach the class of death

Afterwards, analyzing any type of death, immature or mature, they them selves have to do while walking or hanging around the paths or lanes of sansara

Understanding these things will not help to face a mature death, I know

To face a mature death don’t know whether one has to understand ‘what is maturity’

I think behind every incident there is a reason. According to the Buddhist philosophy that is what you called “hethupala waadaya’

Hope I am right

There is a reason for somebody to die of a cancer. Let me try to analyze it putting this incident in to ‘hethupala waadaya’

I know that experts / scholars can do much better way, analyzing these according to the Buddhist Philosophy not me , this is just a try

Death is the incident or the result (palaya /prathipalaya)

There could be many reasons (hethu) for a person to die of a cancer ( I am thinking of life of my father)  

Carelessness

Lack of knowledge on how others, close ones near and dear ones might suffer of ones death( may be)

Lack of awareness on health (Cigarettes, alcohol) perhaps this, my assumption is wrong. I doubt whether he was unaware of all these, thinking of the things he liked talking or discussing when it comes to living or loving a life.   

Bad food habits, I don’t know whether this is a strong factor this actually I mention here thinking of most human beings. My father was a ‘green lover’ he always wanted some malluma with his meals he was particular about his meals these were not main reasons , causes  

It is not definitely because of lack of sex if it is true then death may happen at a ganika madama’ (a house of a prostitutes)

Some deaths we can categorize as careless deaths. Apart from the religious explanations one can look at the reasons and results of any incident putting them in to ‘Economical’, educational, ‘ cultural ‘ factors of a society or  a community

I can take examples only from my own life experiences other than that I can’t talk of the life of the others taking their experiences. Reason is I do not know any of the lives to analyze them in its fullest meaning and I am not an expert to do so. And most accurately I was not given any such right or authority to do so by any of the living beings of this earth. Why should they give others to analyze their life? Obviously there is no reason. Reason is specific to self or to others. I might thinking looking at something ‘there is no reason’ somebody else might look a thing indicating a reason, all depends on person ‘the importance of things related to lives

Therefore I always take my experiences when I talk of something that I like

Death one can take as a result of a birth

When you think of analyzing something under the theory of hethupala waadaya ‘theory of reasons and results in the Buddhist philosophical view it is easier to understand many things in a better way.  

Anyhow, though I am not a neonate I do understand the flavours and shape of a death to a certain extent BUT I am not educate enough to analyze a death in its fullest way

Take care of your life

mrsK; urKhla hkq l=ulao

th idfmCIhs

wm urKh je<| .kak whqre fyda th wm fj; <Õdfjk wdldrhka .ek mqfrdal:khka l, fkdyelshs

wo ud f.jd oeïfï uola fjfyilr WoEikla

miqj ud l,amkd l,d cfka,h äx.la wer, od,d äx.laj;a weia fhdukav ´fka lsh, t<sfh jg msgdjg

fodr;a werf.k ux .syska jdä Wfka mqgqjlg nr oS, fldia .yhg

t;kos ug oeKqfka lshkav ners ;rfu isys,ila wõfjka jqk;a .yg uqjdfjka isá yskao lsisÿ wmyiqjla kï oekqfka ke;s ;rï

mqreoaog jf.a .y osyd ne,qjduhs oelafla mqxÑ mqxÑ mKd .eá;s jf.au mSos, ál fodyla fjkag tk fldia .eá;s;a .y jefykav ;rugu ;sfhkj lsh,

   

Wrysfia .Eù fkd.Eù jegqk mKdu, mqreÿ cSú; mdvuu wdfha wdfh;a u;la lr,d ÿkakd

ySkshg mSÿk fldia weghla ;rug jeä, ;snqK fldia .eg .y jfÜg jeá, ;snqk

tjd uf.a isyshg f.kdfõ wl,a urKhkag f.dÿre jk cSú;

ta w;fra .y uqÿfKa w;=m;fra /|s, ;rula jevqK fldia .eg iq<.;a tlal fmdrnok yeá uu oelald

ug ys;=fka cSj;a fjkag ys;df.k cSúf;;a tlal w,a,k TÜgq we,a,s,af,ka wm fkduerS uefrkjd fkao lsh,

fldfyduo b;sx wms mrsK; úosyg uefrkafka

ug ys;=k kslug ys;, n,kak

jhiska wjqreÿ ish .dkla cSj;a Wkd lsh, flfkl=g mq¿jkao mrsK; úosyg uefrkak

tfyu nE lsh, ug ysf;kj

uyd f,dl= ixjdo ;ral lrkav ú;rla fkfuhs taj;a tlal wka wh;a tlal TÜgq w,a,kav yrs .efgkav yrs hula lula bf.k .;a; ñksiaiq lsh, lshd.kak wm yrs oCIhs

ta;a ysá .uka ta yeufoau wu;l lr, mrK mqrÿ cSú; j,u t,a,s,d ish mK kid.kag oÕ,kj

ux lshkafka ux .ek

ux .ek ñila fjk;a cSú; úYaf,aIKh lrkag ;rug ux lsisu flfklaj wÿkkafka kE tal tfyu lrkav ldf.kaj;a whs;shla ug ,eì,;a kE

fj,djlg wm fkdorefjd jf.a

tfyu bkak wms ysá .uka mrsK; fjkag n,kj

mrsK; urKhl yevh l=ulao  

tfia;a ke;skï tys ndysr fmkqu fldhs jf.ao

taj oek .kag kï urKhg uqyqK fokagu ´fko wehs uers uers Wmosk wh tj okafka keoao

´fk kï flfkl=g tfyu m%YaK lrkav;a mq¿jka

wm cSú; j, iEu ish¿ fohlau isÿjkafka fya;= ¿, jdoh hk kshuhg wkql+,j yd wjk;jhs

urKh m%;s¿,h jkafka kï Bg fya;=mdol jk ldrKh jkafka bmoSuhs

bmoSu yd urKh hkq fkdje,elaúh yels fya;=jla yd ¿,hla f,ig olajd,sh yelshs

.kaOín f,ig fyda N+;d;auhka f,ig wfhla hï urKhla jgyd .ekSu wNHka;rfhys wOHdmksl ixialD;sl yd wdra:sluh lreKq .eíù ke;ehs is;sh fkdyelsh ta wd.ñl jHjydrhkag wu;rjh

Flfia jqj;a urKhl ry .=K fkdf;afrk ;rug ud cSú;h ;=, ì<s|hl fkdjqj;a Bg wod, fndfyda lreKq ú.yhg ud fkdiu;a

urKh f;la cSú;hla hkak fyd|ska /ln,d .; hq;=h fndfyda foaj,a j,g ld,h fukau cSú;ho ñvx.= lrk wm cSj;a ùu Wfoid tfia lrkafkaoehs is;d ne,Sug is;afõ