the good heart conductor friend 'SUMITH'

Time was about 5.15 pm. i was seated in the bus 168 before it starts it's journey towards Kotahena from Nugegoda. The place is not a strange place ' the bus stand'- Nugegoda. 

This time generally is little busy not only for the bus friends and the friends who supports them always also for the ones who hurriedly try to reach their peaceful homes. 

'ahhhh naginna 68, 168, 68

ahhh naginna pagoda paara 63, 63, 163............ naginna negala issarahata yanna

These things are general not very surprised verses that everyone who travels by bus also go passing these busses get to hear in their own mode of travelling and even walking. 

i can feel their inner tiredness to a certain extent but physical tiredness to the maximum, reason is not because that i can feel that they have been working since morning. because of the voice tone.they are like tared.  

so today i am not going to write anything like a magal pedura ( mat) here is what i have to say.

we talk about huge topics and huge personalities who do this and that and everything of this world and some of them are honured and respected.  Organizers give a way huge trophies or gifts for these good heated and most respected personalities i guess their contributions to this society big or small get others recognition and the big world easily get to know what they do. 

But there are small people though they are not small in what they do or the way they think about certain things of the world and even about their people own or otherwise. they go hidden or others never get to know what they are doing in a small way may be but has a 'immeasurable value if you think a moment.

so let me come straight to the point.

a lady came holding a child i guess the child is about 2 years old and i noticed she muttered something to our friend bus driver who works in the same route 168. I did  not hear what she was saying to the our friend driver. 

but i heard what our driver friend's was saying to her as the answer

' ape golaya nam phone ekak hoya hoya hitiya tikak balanna kittuwa ethi 

our helper/assistant too was looking for a phone to buy he must be somewhere close by 

she went around looking for the conductor - friend i saw she was asking one person about the person and little later i saw her talking to the conductor who direct me to the 168 bus the latest to start journey. 

i did not hear their conversation because they were little away from where the bus was parked.

A few moments later ....................

The conductor friend came and shared few words with the driver of the bus where i was seated.

kenek phone ekak wikunanna aawa gattada?

 somebody came to sell  a phone did you buy it  

neha eka a tharam honda neha 
No, it is not that good 

400 kata illanna mama salli dennam
you ask it for four hundred rupees i will lend you the money

epa eya genu lamayekne pirimi lamayek nam mata oka adu karala illanna thibuna lamayekuth wadegana awith mama kohomada ehema illanne 

NO, that is a girl . i could have bargain it for that amount if that is a  boy who came to sell it  how can i do it and she is with a child? 

the bus started to move from the bus depot the good hearted conductor left the bus i am not aware of to which direction he was moved to ?  

i felt happy about this young man - the conductor i asked his name from the driver friend. he is  SUMITH that is what i got to know. and he too work for a bus 168 unfortunately i could not ask the bus number. 

i am not going to analyze what i saw the way i want. 

i like to keep some space for you my friends to think a while and see whether he is a good hearted gentleman or what ever way you can analyse this person Sumith

i am not going to put this little dialogue in to any Gender categorization no one needs special attention but the right attention this lady i do not think that she needed any special attention or their sympathy she had the gadget that could be sellable and she wanted to sell it for a reasonable prize for 500 rupees. The deal was not done. i don't know for what reason she was trying to sell the phone ( mobile) she might had a good reason. i am sure.

anyways i just like to pay my respect towards this young man by just writing a few sentences for you to read and for me as a  reminder.  i might meet him again.

i like to wish this boy luck.  He may or may not find a good phone that is not important here. his good thoughts full of mind.  

wish you all a thoughtful days ahead! 




  

Haha hehe hmmmmm’ & ohhhhhhh’s of our conversations

We have our own ways of communicating, responding the way we like, using various set of words that we like or set of what ever may relevant to the conversation, most of these things depends on the groups or the people that we may associate with or comfortable in associating or comfortable in using the ways we like when communicating. Relevance or applicability of such things are important very specially in the conversation that we make very formally or publically out side to our peer and near groups of friends or otherwise.  

Conversations, discussions I thought is a good topic not only to have a discussion also to discuss all the relevant or applicable things including the language we use or the words that we use, (specifically)

We do not use any ‘aney’ or ‘aiyooooooooo’ kind of words when we are having a formal or sort of framed kind of discussion limiting it to the allocated time. We generally have formal or academic or framed conversations sometimes or mostly with the busy personals, frills have no place in such places of discussions. One can not waste words or time because both important in what ever discussion that you may arrange or take place having an purpose or a main objective of the subject that are important knowing.

  

Oh! I am not sure whether you‘ll like this topic mine. But that is the way things happen sometimes no. people bring topic of news or news and news it is we who discuss such things sometimes or think important or not important. And some bring good, interesting, useful to others locally and internationally discussable or debatable topics or subjects or news. Some topics are internationally acclaimed valid or applicable universally they are important ones.

Some news has political validity some things have socially or historically valid or important if not useful. When we share or discuss such things we use the relevant set of words. If anyone discuss something related to science or spaceship or about air crafts ‘there is no point or others might laugh at us if we use wordings such as ‘how to cook pol rotte or how to fry banana fritters accurately. Scientific methods are valid and important in any of the sciences including human sciences socially acclaimed but one has to know the irrelevances of the wording that we sometimes use. We often make mistakes in our using of wordings and sentences.        

Some discuss APOLITICAL things within POLITICAL AGENDAs and some discuss POLITCAL matters or things putting them in to ‘APOLITICAL FRAME WORKs. To discuss what ever things that comes under apolitical, political or personal labels or banners one can not do it alone. It is possible but there are limitations or one has to face the aftermath results i.e labeling may be.

We need two or more people to have or begin a conversation. To lead that conversation or to get going of such conversations to last such or what ever conversation one needs to feel that he/she is truly in or out of the conversation. This in and out of conversation is important for people who are truly engaged in the conversations. Who wants to waste their moments unused silly fully. 

People use different strategies to show others that they are really ‘in’ or attached with the conversations. They help the involving parties to get going the conversation further or help them to lead the conversation towards forwards.

 You will feel it when you are not connected with the conversations or no connectivity shown this is important for a further continuation of a conversation. When you say no connectivity then you are disconnected from the relevant or irrelevant connections

The language patterns or arts of using words and their reactions shows ones disinterests or interests, likes/dislikes towards the conversations they were/are in.   

If you have watched any interviews/conversations/discussions - Face to Face there are many things that one can notice or even you yourself can experience and I am sure that we all have such experiences within our academic, professional peer – friends’ categories of conversations.

Face is a mirror of what people tells you and you can read their interests or disinterests likes or dislikenesses accurately only if you are totally in the conversation not half or quarterly attached this helps to continue conversation further or any longer or whether they are truly comfortable in the things that you discuss or whether they are well equipped of the subject discuss is important to know.

Information’ to prove their ideas, ideologies, opinions or the things that they suggests immeasurably important because then only the conversation become fruitful at the end.  What ever we or the relavant parties discuss may useful to the big society or only for a particular group that depends on the subjects you discuss or maintain a conversation with, including any communities, and finally to the whole world. This is one of the ways to rate the success-fullness of such conversations or discussions.      

The things you discuss depends on the group/people/individuals and of course their ‘interests’ – subjects.

Bored or going well ‘energy – fullness, liveliness ‘enthusiasms’ of a conversation truly depend on the people involved. If you feel dull or bored or dead during a conversation then that will become no use.

The ways of delivering expressions also important just think of a conversation attached with an audience huge how you truly can impress them is valid and important.

for an artist ‘their fans’ – are important ‘one need people to watch the dramas/films – tele or print what ever they create – the audience is important. You can rate your bonds with them looking at their faces, sometimes though I am not quite sure about such things I mean rating people just by looking at their faces.

It is important for people to know when ‘two people’ or more people in conversation whether others are listening to what they/he/she say or agree or disagree, like or dislike to their ways of elaborating or explaining arguing things, subjects, concepts, existing or of coexisting/s (?) this is a matter of a lastingness or validity of the things they discuss.

When you encounter that others who are in conversation with you are ‘not interested in listening’ or ‘not reacting to your ideas’, ideologies or logics ‘you feel really odd’ ‘disconnected’ or you feel like putting the full stop to the conversation that you were trying to ‘start’ continue or carry on further

Lack of ones words, inexperience’s affects the successnesses of any conversations or discussions, I like to believe 

My sister most of the time never liked what I liked to talk of or discuss she likes to talk of very day today stuff attached with very teeny weeny stuff she does not like to touch any complex or things that may spoils her calmness or quietness’, happiness of her mind or she does not want me to ruin her mood. J I agree with her today.

There were days that when I just about to start saying something she shows her disinterests then there is no way of continuing it she does not want me to complete at least the first sentence that I am trying to start.

Onna patan gatta

Here she started again

‘Aiyoooo’

Then she nicely takes both her hands together and shows me like she is venerating worshiping me kind of action J

“Please stop this nonsense I do not want to hear those things”

Then my mood changes – (obviously no?)

But whenever ( this is rare though) I discus something that she likes very much ‘situation is 

different.

Ahhhhh!

Aththada? (really!)

Ithin …….. ithin ………….

So ……. So……..

Nehah

Nooooooo

So such conversation goes like that with so much fun.

Interesting to watch her face eyes – giggles

I truly have to learn and find some good topics that she likes to discuss with me ‘hmmmmmmmm she is very busy these days and hardly find some times to spend with me’ or to have a conversation- she sometimes comes and hugs me

I too don’t like to end such conversations.

 It is same with me sometimes I am greedy for such conversations and she has two good friends at her work place so matches with her interests and a good group they are. Manjula and Roshini are very good friends of her I have so much interests to hear what they discuss sometimes with eyes full of happiness. only when they are not very busy.

It is me who sometimes spoils her mood, honestly.

Ah

Before I forget about a month back one of my friends phoned. He is Kriz he is a good friend though I do not know him too well.

We just spoke of this and that of ‘something’ and he suddenly said

Mama ithin nikan katha kale

I just phone.

How good it was if he had a reason to phone me I thought.

I felt little ‘no use’ to continue the conversation. Even the two voices showed the same I thought at the end.

Oh!

Finally he said that they are planning to go for a trip.

Ohhhhhhh what a good idea

But I can’t remember I was saying something like that as a reply to his reaction or question.

Some conversations are like that you feel no joy in talking to if you feel that they just phone you or when their voice shows a little ‘lazy’ torn. This is no insulting I am trying to get some data to prove what I am trying to say. I do the same. Lets think a while in what occasions that we show our disinterests or do not like to continue conversations and why sometimes we talk sleepless for hours and hours with our loved, dear near friends until pm ‘s becomes am s in the morning. Interesting, but that has ‘no surprises’ in such things.

I do not know how sharks, Dolphins, and leeches talk to each other or when they meet their friends from another completely different- peers & then interacts. Squirrels with squirrels how they talk to each other I don’ think that they quarrels with each other or with others.

In conversation with cricket

Yes indeed

That is a marvelous shot and that’s gone for six

Certainly it is a marvelous shot

Exactly, exactly

What a shot!

So you‘ve done a course in how to give cricket commentary’

Exactly, exactly

We did not know that

Oh did I say yes

No I have not done any courses I am just a mad but a good fan of cricket.

We knew that though you confused us saying ‘exactly, exactly

What! You knew it

How do you know all these even without saying anything to you ‘you have telepathy right?

No! Wrong I have no telepathy but I am little televised no no wise at all.

If you clearly think of the dialogue above wrote you can notice that sometimes we answers or reacts to certain situations when we are over enthusiastic of something or when we are so thrilled and enjoy something totally. Then your answers sometimes do not come under ‘accurate’ category but when you are really into the conversation ‘you don’t give wrong answers or you just don’t say what ever thoughts that catch your moments of conversations – detached.

Flow of a conversation is important nodding or shaking our heads towards that side or to some other side or towards down or up what ever side you shake your head or use body language has a meaning. That may help or might not help for the continuation of the conversation. I know such things bring no harm but ones moments -spend has some value. One can not talk nonsense if you are truly in an important discussion or in a conversation that is important to you personal or professional political or apolitical.

This is interesting that the remarks we make ‘during an interview’ or a conversation/s sometimes without thinking too much, most of the time these things happens unconsciously with out pre planning. You can’t pre plan how you are going to react to a un- done or not started conversation before hand. That should come under ‘unplanned’ flow of such conversation one can not pre plan.

You have to smile sometimes during an interview or shakes you head or you may have to use certain words carefully.

General conversations with peer and near or dear ones are different to the well planned and pre planned ‘conversations’/interviews. They generally have a script (agenda) a questionnaire if you have a clue or if you are notified of on  what topic direction they are going to discuss or on what matter then can go prepare then things become different.

If you unexpectedly meet one of your old friends, relative gone missing for a long time, I can’t think of how they going to start or end their discussions.   

When people read or hear or ‘news’ they have things to say. Some news they ‘accept or reject’ it is very interesting after news telecast or while news telecasts – during a tele drama people have things to say

Ohhhhhhhh

Wow

Sooooooo good

Aney aparade

Aiyooooo

We blame the characters - black (in the drama) and praise the one we like.

Giving or receiving empathy

I am sure this subject of ‘empathy’ – very popular these days than any other days before is a very well known subject now amongst all around world.  When you give or receive empathy ‘there is a particular way to give specifically. When receiving empathy from some trusted person well trained or one you can trust plus that you know and sure of not laughing back to you for the things you shared to get some relief.  You should not hide anything if you are to receive ‘fullest - empathy’.

Self empathy is different. Sometimes when you are sharing with a person who listens to what you have to say ‘ might not talk to you in words’ ‘the person might just show you caring touching your shoulders or keeping your hand together with the person and remember this generally happens between ‘same gender’ if you are getting this kind of help from a professional apart from that there is no barriers in giving or receiving empathy there are ways of giving and receiving empathy outside to professional ways of doing it.

Soooooo I am not quite sure whether you would enjoy this conversation of mine Ahhhh that is alright no one agrees or disagrees to the things that we sometimes talk or discuss some agree to some and some disagree to some.

Hmmmmmmm today is a quite day outside.  

  

Deals right with polite pepper and cheerful Chilly

‘Right quantity’ & ‘right quality’ are belong to one same family, - ‘just right’

They belong to the parampara that is always so very special - ‘spices’.

Polite pepper is not polite when you try to misuse him Cheerful chilly is little alright but she too is unpredictable when it comes to dealing with right taste.  

No one can use them the way they want. You need to know them well before getting their help.

Polite pepper is highly demandable sometimes than cheerful chilly though both unquestionably & exclusively important in our all or every tasteful dealings.

Cheerful chilly is so musical if you know the right time and right moment to go musical. Polite pepper is tinier than cheerful chilly completely different in appearances including their skins tones. Sometimes polite pepper comes only in special moments though cheerful chilly is ‘always ready to serve you no matter when you need her service’ she holds a so special place. They have little different ways of dressing but their friends find no difficult in recognizing them.

You know this ‘just right’ family is a worldly known family (pardon me for forgetting the little ones of the family) just name a single person that have not heard of these two I will buy you an icy corn.  Chocolate or vanilla or strawberry NO, no mulberries sorry- this is rare and so special therefore can not be found everywhere, all over the world, may be it is not at all impossible to buy any of my friends if agrees a kochchi flavoured J corn) why there is nothing or something like that in the markets - iced.   

All very chubby chefs or darling cooks know them very well, they know their addresses and all contact details, e mail address, Skype - including. Please Madame- Chefs could you please pardon me just for this time for not addressing you in a right way because I am not aware of the right word (right gender of the word when you still have this gender thing plays an important role like Mister, mistress, actor actress)

To know the following I will have to meet them and ask (may be I should make an appointment to meet then and have a little interview. perhaps I can send you the after interview findings/results (you have to pay) by post – registered.

  Cheerful chilly and polite pepper are your good names I am so very interested in knowing whether you have any nick names? Do others call you chubby chilly or enchanting chilly? Proud pepper ( Noooooooo I doubt because you are not like that) still it is good to know. I am very curious to know all these trust me.

Secondly, I like to know (I am so eager to know) why you guys have such a demand and lives in all hearts and minds very universally?  I know that all stars Columbia, dearwood and deerwood, all entertainment, kind- Kollywood and Bollywood, ohhhhhhh let me not forget Hollywood is it a one word? Yeah I am sure (where is my dictionary?) unforgettable – Bellwood (the centre of art – voices mainly) they too know you better than me (?).

What was our beautiful doctor Ayurvedic (forgive me forgot your name) doing near Green Cross today? Did the director say ‘CUT’ or ‘Action’ or both? She for sure knows the ‘just right’ family undobtbly well and ‘right quantity and right quality friends better than me.

Polite pepper is an active member of this ‘share of five’ group. I hope that he is still an active member of that group don’t know whether the membership expired already? Did you pay membership fees on time polite pepper? (like we pay our net membership fees on time J some of them are inactive in that way but some members are very active in using the facilities of the group/s)even cheerful chilly knows this very well for instance she knows that when you don’t pay the ,memberships fees regularly that may lead to the ‘dis-functionality’ of the group.   

Have you heard of this ‘the share of five’ before? (Pas panguwa J)

My next question would be ‘what do you do to enhance your skin tone? Any special treatments you follow? Cheerful chilly you look so glowful how did you achieve that target, will you share the secret with me (your fans)?

And

Are you really comfortable in moving or dealing with the gals and boys of all stages J of very, very low (No, not law) level classes, the houses with cadjan weaved, covered and then sheltered roofs, Sinhala Ulu( tiles), not tiled floors , no shining floors, ( not polished), amma wears redda and hatte ( kaba kuruththa), thaththa wears redda and baniyama live faraway or very close places, shelters - classes? If not why, please explain?

Also if possible please explain,

Have you been to the land diagnosed, NO sorry wrong word ‘founder’ by ‘Mr. Familiar pepper from a different family called ‘chilledchilly – land’ and ‘prosperous pepper Island’?  may be you will have to face little disputes when applying for Visa that is all but after that ‘ you will face no issues in ‘yanna hema athe or owne athe’ ( go everywhere or anywhere) in the land.

What is the level of demand that you both have in young America and in cool Alaska? Where was this Babylonian before? Were they resident near Mississippi or Upraties Tigris.

Have you ever got any chances to meet ‘the popularity’ even today unbreakable ‘Queen Paro and Cleopatra’? Why am I asking this from you polite pepper, cheerful chilly I am not awareL. Sometimes I do not know what I am asking? I should have sent this to the ‘superior department’ for clarifications and to get approval before thinking of using this questionnaire format’.  

Did memorable Mark Anthony loved any of the old ones of this ‘just right’ ‘spicy spiced parampara?

When you get the print (it will take few days) ‘do not go and complain (to whom) that ‘this is not the interview (right) that I gave ‘Ms Foot- path’ she has spoiled and misprinted what I told her. Save me if I will have to face any issues or something similar.

I know that you are very and really busy but please answer my following question as well.

What is the nature of the connection that you have with ‘Miss Pepper mint’?

Following was not in the questionnaire.

I heard that Miss Charity love chilly once cried without knowing how to locate the residence of ‘right quantity’ and ‘right quality’ but ended up meeting ‘wrong quantity and wrong quality’ above all have met ‘exceeded right quantity’ (the Principle of the school of chubby but not chefs) is it true? My dear advice is that if you by any chance face such issues in the future immediatly meet ‘Miss something Sweet’ you do not have to ask chubby chefs or charming chefs to get an answer.

Ok it is time for me to take a cheerful musical break

Have a ‘right quantity’ ‘right quality’ life ahead!

    

     

    

  

   

   

   

MY 'TODAY'

Every night in my dream I like to see ‘approved’ ‘approved’ and ‘approved’.  

Pending is not just a word it is a bad dream

Did Sigmund Frauid mention anything or something, similar related to something or anything or whatsoever called ‘pending’ or ‘the files can not be located’. I m trying to think of the differences of ‘nightmares and bad dreams see I am a Singlish woman do these words hold similarities in its meanings. Can I talk to someone who ‘knows the subject well – nightmares/bad dreams’  

  

APPROVED is the most liked word of my day – today (everyday). Even since few days this has become the most associated, looked in all files word and I am little worried to read or hear the word

‘PENDING’. I never thought that these two words have this much of power. And I even never thought that these words have the power to boost or collapse your routines or schedules of a day, break or crack ‘co – worker’ ‘co – worker’ relationships. It is so interesting to study how it affects a whole lot of people that we associate with.

If anyone sees the word approved in relation to their carrier, learning etc I am sure that it will give the particular parties attached with this word or has something to do with this word ‘peace of mind’. 

This says you are qualified (depending on the subject dealt with) and if they (who ever) get the disapproval for something I guess no need to explain the status of ones mentality. Pending gives little relief and gives a little hope to the parties or personals/ groups because there is a chance of getting the approval I do not know what percentage of expectation it holds this word what I can say here is that ‘if the involved parties or engaged parties have done their ‘part accurately’ have done their home work properly such as the procedures of ‘filling out forms’, check everything properly and neatly, writing down every action you take ( I do not always trust computer entered stuff when it comes to checking because if you mistakenly click the button delete ‘it may difficult to locate it again not even in your trashed, recycle bin to keep in both the places are advisable it is always good to have everything ready and unquestionable for instance with out keeping any chances to complain. 

If you do follow the exact path or necessary/correct instructions given there is a chance of getting the approval for any related subject of life (carrier, education) even getting it for the things relates to ‘the out side to carrier approvals’ such as the parents approval for lovers J  both parties have to be good and has to show their eligibility J

ELIGIBILITY this too has some weight more than I thought learnt recently. ELIGIBLE is a good word that some like to read in the documents that they get, also for the students of any subjects if there is something called ‘has to face for the eligibility tests of life’ must concentrate on that first. Make no mistakes during this eligibility tests of life is better. I think it is always good to focus on one particular subject first and come to clear and clean level proceed from there (get the ‘eligibility approvals relevant) and then focus on the rest. It is good and relevant if we treat nicely for the ‘first come first serve’- files first.  

     

Value of a return ‘smile’ (specially in the first – half of the day at least)

So above words are the words that I like to read and let me tell you the visuals that I like to watch most these days. SMILING faces of people. a real visuals or real world attach to any places, markets, shopping outlets, bus stops, all stops or goes forwards, mute, moving, stagnant, named or unnamed, recognized or not recognized, have got approval or not got approval what ever places attach or not attach to ones life ‘smiling faces’ has a millions or billions worth in everyway. At least a return smile - this would do wonders I have no doubts. If you see the ones that do not smile that may spoil your day. This includes no expenses I mean borrowing or receiving or delivering, exchanging a smile. 

Wear right  

It is not ‘where is right’ kind of things that one must think, worry or go in search of. Right thing to do is to try think of how to ‘wear right’.

If you don’t wear something that suits you or something which gives no hazels that is a relief such things will not distracts or disturbs your days work or schedules. Wear right things are not less important ‘comfortability’ too has shown importance like eligibility.  Wear right things do not have anything to do with accountability I suppose J but surely for other things. Am right?

Have a little break in between of any work this would lead you to the level of ‘quality-full output’.  This I like to relate to the above mentioned ‘viewing smiling faces’. Always avoid the complainful minds and try embrace the ‘always have something to appreciate minds’.   Yes I know some things, meetings or associations are inevitable. Must find a way J to receive a kind, friendlyfull smile ‘I guess to receive this kind of responses one has to engage in good deeds.

Check lists never forget to take the things that you should be taking to wherever place’ check list plays always an important role.

Above are few lessons I learnt today. I will have to make sure I follow the exact accurate ways in completion of assigned tasks

How to face the faces that are not visible, lovely ‘voices come through known wires’ as well as unknown wiring partners of connectivity. For such things you need to have not the eligibility but the intelligibility. Can’t we assume or let me say ‘identify’ the faces via the voices I want to hear more of them’. I learnt some shows in asking or answering questions very ‘professionalability’ J what do you really thinking, are you thinking of the word ‘professionalability’ you need to search this word under ‘wordability’ let me know when you find the word. don’t tell me that you were unable to find the word let me tell you before reading your questions change the dictionary you are using these days get the latest and make sure you find these words before purchasing the dictionary. AlrightJ. Buy the book (Dictionary) that comes under the tag of ‘all rights reserved’ that should come under that label no other label is valid keep that too in your minds – friendly readers.

Have approvals full of life ahead !

      

    

The missed MUL PITU ( the front pages)

i remember i used to read all the mulpitu ( the front pages) through you. not only me there are many who reads you and i know that they have a huge fan page. 

everyone who is busy with their work enormously used to listen or watch all the front pages thanks to them. 

you know sometimes people know what to do with this technology they know that they can read all the 'on line editions easily' it is a relief for them in finding time convienient for them even in the middle of the night or morning the paper is there on line. what they need sometimes is the kaalaya. some face little issues in buying a paper a and read leisurely at the moments of wanting to read a paper. some like me have the money issues or there must be other reasons that people apart from reading not because that they do not like or lose the interests reading that never happen in this era or that era of world full of minds they always have the desire to read and know the current happenings in and around of their own soils and across globe the whole universe is there generally that is why most of them fallen in love with the print media the hard copies that comes not in different sizes but in different front page ' art' crafted so elegantly. the lines and art of their talents come before our eyes without giving us any distractions to read it is just finding a moment to understand and read them carefully is the issue ( i do not know whether this is a minor or a major issue that people are facing due to their busyness) that some have.

each and everyone of them show (always) some difference in designing the mul pitu the front pages and the second and all the pages and even the last page. ( anthima or awasan pitu) 

some do not have money, some others do not have other things in finding a paper to read but they always had the desires to know A - Z of 'current' some do not have anyone home to send to the nearest kade due to their busyness.  For some the paper bicycle comes to the door step of their homes but do not know whether they find few moments away from very busy schedules of a day to read each and every sentence carefully. but they read that i am sure. 

most of us know the way to read or how to get the information of hot and happening of news world in and around because there are alternatives such as television and radio as well but none can match with the 'buying a printed version and read them close to eyes of ones' that is always a different to every other ways in getting information for ones perusal.

i like to buy a paper and read leisurely  and read the Mulpitu  the way that is convenient for me i believe that most of the readers are like that.


the idea of  mulpituwa came and settled in peoples hearts and minds mainly as a result of busyness of people and they provided their viewers a solution to 'no moment to find to read papers' they have a such a beginning i believe if i am correct. it is a new concept reading or watching front pages via the television screens. i know most followed the same way. but the popularity that it hold never faded away. 

 They read the carefully selected pages very carefully especially the ones that has a loads of news values and i like the cartoons they chose to give us a little hint of many things and the entertaining pages they give them some place because they have current value i guess the reason behind they choosing such pages to read before our eyes are to give the artists a massive place not just to give the readers to pleasure. many artists know that they generally get the fullest support and respect from the print media and that helps them in associating with their most loved and love fans and also they become a huge 'knowledge gainers via these pages' i am not assuming such things i guess i can surely say it because i am not a new reader bit of a old reader i am.

my today's idea of writing this is not to promote this program or something  but to respect the idea and to revel what i really feel about them and sometimes we never gets chances to 'thank people for supporting us or to say sorry when we are giving them troubles unknowingly sometimes.   

i am not aware of the volume that i hurt you my friends i do not know whether i steal something from you my friends or disturbs you or i am not aware whether the things that i write sometimes irritates your mind if i have done something similar via this path mine - foot path i like to say sorry and wish you all luck!

so Mr. Bandula Padmakumara is the main founder of this page 'mul pituwa and beautiful Ridmali and sandamali gives him the totalful support they design the pages before our eyes so meaningfully.

i am away from TV these days. i do not know may be i might start reading you again via three of you i like to say that i missed mul pituwa the morning briefing of news and many and many more of the things of this world.

they come to you via Swarnawahini every morning 6.30 am ( hope you have not change the telecasting moments) 

have a good Day all mul pitu and every pitu of this world!  

do not misunderstand me i am not saying that the people's idea of buying a paper from a kade or from a shop and read has decreased from people's minds.  every day you are earning a new reader earning is a good word. it is not always attach to the money and related. 

take care paper world! 

The difference

Do not know whether I have told you this before. We have few good friends at home they are so cute and give no trouble kind of guys and gals. They have names one of them is ‘Bula’ the very dear friend of all. And the one who came very recently and joined our ‘group – home’ is ‘ Rabita’ and steady and teddy are the other ones. 

There are few others in a place where I do not happen to see them very often the reason is the nature of their residence. They were given a room in the wardrobe of mine (sorry ours). They too do not bothers me or us (nangi and me) They fight for no rights they ask nothing, they question nothing, they are just happy the way they are and about what they have already got. One is from Dubai and the others are from the kingdom of United. They too have a story to tell, I know their story like how they came here how we met each other is a long story. I think ‘what point telling it to you or what do you get in return in knowing about them because you have not met them before.

They are too cute.

So ……………….

Let me not forget the topic of the day ‘the difference’.

So I love this group of my friends I can cuddle them tease them blame them kiss them no one oppose (they do not support even) so this group of friends mine taught me a lesson today. No actually they just let my mind to think and analyze further the word ‘difference’. 

I am not going to write anything about my explanation of the word ‘difference’. It is sometimes good to know what others think about such things rather than saying what I have to say all the time.

I am not going to take all the friends I like very much or not like that much (I am human) in this ‘my trying -‘explaining’ the word ‘difference’.

Following revelation is fully and completely based on my own experiences and I am not going to explain any of the experiences that others have experiences so far or of will experience in the future. Though I have heard many stories related to (fairy tales, mills and boons stories of children and youth written by the story writers of this and that of ears of publishing, documenting, screening, producing etc)

Think of a friend of human take ‘dogs’ for example tell me how many of you like them. 

How many of you have a dog at your home. Tied or not tied. (I hate when people tie animals and cage them) there are people who love and respect any creatures even the ones who belongs to ‘not human beings category’. If I start write about such things you may feel little ( not little but a lot) boring to read for instance the things like the animal rights, how to respect livings beings, how to look after them, what to feed etc.  

(If you have any questions such as ‘what kind of respect you are talking about some even do not respect their own people,own parampara or their families or relatives or in summary ‘who respect human’ even if your mind entangle with such thoughts in this moment forget it for a moment)  

How about reading a story? I am going to write a story a ‘fiction’ one can say but I write this based on my true experiences that I told you already)

No let me change the topic of following explanation related to the word ‘difference’. So following is a conversation so forget the earlier version that I named as ‘a story’ this is not a story ok I changed the topic.

( a mother and a child is heading towards a town close by and the following conversation took place between them during their walk towards the decided destination not known to me) 

Child: amma why you always hate the pussy cat comes to your kitchen and when ever you see it you say ‘ganda putha ara kossa gahala elawanna uuwa’ (take that broom putha, hit and chase it away)’

Mother: that is because it eats all the things that it sees on a plate it never take any permission no putha before eating. Karawala tika thiya ganna beha maalu hattiya pennana beha kaala daala yanawa hora pusa’ when ever it sees dried fish or a pot of cooked fish it eats and runs a way  ‘pussy thief’ (hora pussa- sorry about my poor translation)

Child: so it does not have any owners is that what you mean?

Mother: that is Mr Lasantha (Ampitiya- kandy) their Pusa no?   

Child: sin, it faces all these because the owner does not care for it and give some food no?

Mother: it is sometimes difficult for them to buy pussy food they are generally so expensive Mr. Lasantha can not afford to buy them.

Child: did he really tell you?

Mother: NO he did not say anything as such I just assumed

Child: oh that is Bad no amma

Mother:

What is bad you say?

Child: No I mean you assume things without knowing it really he did not tell you anything like that no amma.

Mother: forget ‘all these did you do your home work’?

Child: Monday is a Poya day we have no school I can do it on the Poya day.

Mother: is that so? Let’s take some daanaya to the temple on this coming poya day then will you help me putha?

Child: Ok,amma why we really give danaya (alms giving) to the temple?

Mother: see you do not know that small thing even what a simple thing that is. Now you are in your grade eight you should know all these by now. You should have learnt all these by now.

Mother: we give daanaya to collate some ‘Pin’ when you do good deeds’ you will be eligible to live a good life in your next soul or in your next life.

Child: Oh I understood.

I have one more question to ask you.

Then when you harm the pussy cat will you not collate ‘sin’.

Mother: eeeeeeeeeyah

(Child look paled and dissatisfied because he did not get an answer to what he asked from his mother)

Child: why what happened?

Mother: ‘ sattu jara karala paare’

These animals do not know where to …………………

This animal shit. aiyoooo.

Putha see whether there is any public tap close by or something to wash my legs.

Child: No you will have to wait until we go home.

Mother: ‘what’, what a child you are ‘where has your intelligence gone’ how can I wait until I reach home? These animals …………. (Conversation continues)

(They stopped near a shop)

Mother:  Mudalali we need some water to clean my legs.

Mudalali (the shop owner): eeeeeeeyah athulata enna epa ara eliyen gihin eha peththe piyippen hoda ganna.

(Eeeeeyah do not come inside. there is a tap outside to my shop go wash your legs)

(There is a huge area full of toys like puppies, cats, teddies, dolls in this shop) the washing part is over by now)

Mother: aaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyy

What a cute puppy. Aney ara pusa.

The face of the mother lighten with smiles – hundreds of them 

Mother: aney mudalali how much is that?

Mudalali: what?

Mother : The Puppy and the pussy cat

Mudalali: The puppy - I can give you for twenty thousand rupees and for the pussy cat just give me hundred rupees.

Mother: Aney, a ‘so cheap cat’?

But Mudalali can’t you give some discount for the Puppy I have only 18 000 in my wallet no.

Mudalali: take him home and pay the rest later.

What about the pussy cat then?

(Child is watching all these carefully and also listening to all the conversations that took place between the Mudalali and the mother)

Mmmmmmm the pussy cat, take it for free.

I want no money. I will give it to you for free.

Mother: Aney thank you Mudalali thank you so much.

You are so kind.

Mother: putha do not you think that pussy cat is cute?

Child: (smiles gently)

Hmmmm it look alright but I like the puppy so much than the pussy cat.

Mother: we will find a nice place for them to reside alright. You keep the puppy I will keep the pussy cat in our room.

Child: but you do not like ‘pussy cats’ no amma. Don’t you feel like hitting her using a broom or a stick?

Mother: but putha this pussy cat will not steal anything from our kitchen it talks no talks so it will not bother us. So I like it.

(‘Silence’ continues for many minutes or hours)

Mother: Say something darling

Child: I have nothing to say you do not like the one who comes to your kitchen and then now you say you like the one you bought or got it for free just because it can’t breathe or play like other pussy cats.

(Silence is the only visible thing apparent after the conversation took place about the pussy cat that can breath and play and about the one that can not talk, play or breath) moment )

Mother: I AM SORRY putha I know that I shouldn’t have done that & we must learn to respect every living being of this universe.

Child: I am happy to hear that amma.

Mother: you know something putha we adults sometimes or most of the times learn things from the intelligent kids like you.

Child smiles and hugs his mother

[And this very special ( children are always special) knows very well what ever she does that is for their own good and she is a good mother and good human being as well ‘we all make mistakes sometimes’ but when we realize that we sometimes do make mistake unconsciously even we most of us ‘accept’ and do not hesitate to correct them no matter who gives advise].