It is interesting to sit and think a while about
our own lives a bit. This, in most of the occasions or every possible moment comes
to our minds. We say, we write, discuss we talk to ourselves, often we give
advises to others to follow this and not that but when it comes to practicing
it ‘ourselves’ ‘we are a little lazy to give it a try though It is no difficult.
Nothing is difficult I thought people need a
little bit more ‘minutes’ from the clock that we read every possible moment.
Some children are very quick learners some are not but I m not going to apply
this theory to the adults grown up facing and experiencing this and that of ‘professional
spheres of different categories of work or departments even though some ‘setup’
shows a little difference compared to few existing, in this world ‘private or government
or even semi government, ‘non profit organizations ‘aiming at profit earning-
organizations etc’. One thing we can do is to take what is good from ‘any’ we
see or learn which is useful or relevant or good for our places of work’.
It is a little number that generally grows or
develop, improve, change up to a ‘big number’ there will be no big numbers if
you forget them in the earlier stages or the initial stages ‘one can not expect
to aim a big number unless you win a lottery or something , suddenly. I have
noticed and have seen the people huge – like Nuga trees how they have achieved
or gained collated ‘big numbers’ in life ‘Professional and otherwise’ because
they do care about small numbers as well.
They are the people who I like to say
have understood the theory of how a rupee is made or in a rupee coin ‘what
includes’ ‘the content value of a rupee coin’. They know how much of cents it
contained also they know that even in a ‘big rupee note’ the cents are
included’ ‘cents’ is the basic foundation of a big number. There will never be
any rupees coins or notes, big or very big without a cent(s) if that is the
minimum ‘value’ when it comes to ‘moving properties’ I am not aware of the
immovable ones. So they win. ‘Starting from ‘zero’ (0), 1 to any or many
numbers ‘every single number is equally important and given maximum ‘respect’ I
have read and watched. Therefore complaints are invalid I like to think and
guess.
Others can monitor us from ‘outside’ but when it
comes to internal analysis of self, auditing of ‘self shall I name it this way
‘self - auditing’ ‘who knows and understand the character called ‘I’ better
than me. according to my personal views in this mostly ‘individualized world ‘self’
has become more and more ‘self development focused’ or they are aimed at
‘personalized development’ please pardon me I like to also mention here that ‘when
we do qualitative analysis than analyzing numbers ( quantitative) ’ there is
always a margin for both sides of life meaning this may be true for some may be
it is not true for all ( applicability) of them because the term called ‘self’
is differ from ‘self’ to self’ ( person to person). May be this my ‘saying’
that I note here without doing any ‘research on people’s perceptions of the
term development’ I should explore more later with some statistics or
qualitative analysis
Above my sharing ideas with you all I say
depending on my ‘thinking’ ‘ideas’ ‘perceptions’ of the people I have been
meeting throughout my life and I have met before and these my assumptions re
based on ‘their ideas on certain things related to ‘improvement’ or
‘development’ ‘the idea of going up in the ladder of successful life’ ‘the
electronically operate life of life – successes’ and this I can say ‘very
automatic’ one can go up faster than the ones who comes or going the same way
climbing the steps – general or in other words ‘using the stair case’ either
way is possible. It is ones choice really, ‘whether the person decides to use a
‘lift’ - automatic, electronically operate and this is kind of a machine which
gives us support to move up or go up, not that much of sweats releases to the
outer world then, we don’t have to put a lot of effort to go up. Many I have
met who have used the other ways. If the person do not mind of the time spends
any years or decades or how fast one needs to move upwards or whether he/she
chooses ‘slow ways’ or no hurry ways it is personal ‘one has the right to do
so’. During these processes of ones life moving upwards they get ‘motivation
from outside world families own, friends, relatives, well wishes’ etc therefore one might argue that then ones
‘speeds of moving upward’ may change ( possibilities) slightly or to some
extent. I personally believe that such things depends really on ones perceptions
or the personal ideas or choices in life ‘moving upward’ or objectives, aims,
also visions’ related to ‘life professional and private’ I have come to that
conclusion’
I thought it is alright to analyze after thinking
of existing ways, the ways experimented by most of the people I have known, met
etc throughout their lives or the ways people have been trying so far in their
lives in relation to ‘development’ above discussed ( categorized). We can apply
the things we have learnt from others seen them or watching them, reading the,
putting them in to different components of life ‘how the same can be applied to
our lives personally if that is relevant or if one think that it is ‘no harm in
using, following the same’ or we can use the same ‘changing slightly, adjusting
methodically, intelligently until it comes to the level that matches our
visions of life in development ‘professional or life excluded professional with
out hazels of course’.
Self services, self analysis, self motivation, we
can think of many ‘self development’ don’t worry even if you have not heard
some of these words or not ‘self – vision’, ‘self criticism’, ‘self control’, we
can think of many words concepts theories that can be used for a ‘better life –
individual’ ‘self’ in relation to every component of ones life BUT FINALLY IF
YOU DO NOT INVEST THE SAME in to the groups you associate or not associate ,
‘their’ is a big word it is limited to a small number this has a big meaning
when it comes to ‘development of an organization’ successfulness of a institution
their here is a bi word ‘it is ‘no good’
personal, individual development must finally aimed at wining ‘we’ the
organization, the country we live ‘the holistic development of the smallest
unit of our society -‘family’ ‘groups organizations big or small that has to be
the ‘final result’. No personal development is long lasting or valuable if that
is not re invested back in society.
‘Self’ is not a bad word or term if we finally
aiming or thinking of its ‘complete or the wholistic idea, sense behind self
‘our’ ‘we’ ‘us’ like you discuss most
often.
Selfishness is never a good word. in this morning
during a little walking distance I heard on radio ‘I could not recognize the
voice or the channel fm ‘ it is no pint fishing in a disturbed water’ ‘bora
diye maalu baana beha’ then, we need to then think of a way as to ‘how to
purify the water’ there is always other ways as well i.e. we can wait until it
settles down naturally, comes to the position when it clears naturally with out
trying too much or putting efforts unnecessarily when we people try to clear
the disturbed water sometime during that process we may worsen the situation or
you may become a member of the big ‘team’ -who let, allows the water become
more ‘bora’ ‘unclear’ ‘disturbed’ than previous situation of bora diya and is not a permanent situation it
calms down or comes to the general position what is unpredictable is the ‘time
it takes’. So if anyone talks of ‘kunu maalu’ the fish so spoiled or is not in
a eatable position or are not in a good position ( looks like) even to keep in
the tanks of our home kept – ornamental fishes’ or fisheries corners what is
there to be done. Do you know ? you can clean the ‘kunu elawal’ ( the big
drainage canals’ I really can not say anything as to whether these fishes are resilient to any
‘kunu’ that comes via small drainage/s or canals touching the pipe lines of
‘different units – buildings houses or other wise’ including ‘sewer’ lines then ‘will this
cleansing process would help the fishes to be where ever they are in a ‘fresh’
or not spoiled positions ‘aren’t they getting old the fishes’? what is the life
time of a fish’ ( any kind big or small shark or ‘haal messas ( the tiny ones)
they don’t decay that is what some think :( ‘Then it comes to the position of
‘kunu wenawa’ – spoils’ etc what will generally happens to a dead body of a
living been? Interesting no? Who has not
been to a mortuary before? Have a visit it is a place where anyone can learn a
lot.
All these above mentioned are important. Why?
Sometimes you have to develop your ‘patience’ ‘self control’ I thought what
development worth without some understanding of how sometimes ‘people face
things’ unrecognized or not known to other people.
Ok let me come back to my title of the day. Do I
have to explain how a bamboo tree looks like when it grows and grows from early
childhood of the tree ‘growth’ passing all other stages of its life ‘pre childhood’
and secondary, tertiary and finally to adultery stages ( the very developed
positions ( comparatively). Think of the most highest level the tallest
position of the tree ‘it bends towards down’ it looks back staying in the same
position ‘high’ those who are yet to be stepped up to the same position. According
to my personal observations done so far though we get different varieties of
this type it never refuses to have a look at those who are in the down floors
of growing – stages. That is development
I like to believe nothing else.
Shall we try to apply this theory of ‘bamboo tree’
of ‘bending’ ‘self’ and ‘wholistic’ ‘flexibility’ with regard to all sides relevant
and applicable to the processes of growth of ones development.
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