i thought today that it is interesting and very interesting sometimes the way we behave in certain situations or circumstances of our lives, in our day today dealings. let me note some of the words and ideas that comes to my mind at this moment 'aggression' is one of them, aggressive behaviours , frustration, ( iccha bangatthwaya) frustration of what we need to think and apply these to our lives when we deal with people ( human)? it has different facets this 'term' that can be work related or otherwise including personal in trying to solve issues, when trying to sort things out, in trying to convince things of many things or somethings. when people do not appreciate what you do, when you get 'devalue' or 'degrade' marks for the things you do for your relatives, and when your own siblings ( rare) thinks that 'meyata weda beha' without even looking at the things that their sister or brother alone doing sometimes sitting in a room of their house and when people come to certain and certain assumptions of what others say without inquiring it such things may frustrate you. i just note these things but my todays topic is not to talk about 'frustrations' but about yawning yet i may not stop here i may continue discussing the same lets see.
no this time something else comes to my mind shall share them with you.
let me come to the idea of 'POSITIVE ATTITUDE TOWARDS WORK WE DO'
you truly have to have 'positive'+ positive+ positive+ positive+ positive +Positive feelings towards what you do. Yes I CAN WORK, YES SHE CAN WORK, YES THEY CAN WORK, YES HE CAN WORK, and YES ...........
what a hectic work no you do, boring no the work you do, such things are VIRUSES such things are little difficult to erase from your mind when it comes and settles in the minds of human.
when you observe somebody yawning 'what you get in return' what comes and stays in your mind.
do you get an encouraging feeling.
what is the real idea behind yawning. OH ! NO i asked it the wrong way. Why people yawn? they never yawn at people NO?
people do not mind yelling at people that is different i know. Yawning and yelling are two different words we learn at schools.
the experts of 'Human' body' i am sure have done enough of 'observations' before they write them down for us to download from the internet plus on human behaviours, certain actions and reactions of them - children , adults, different groups etc i am sure that they have given enough of explanations as well for us to go through and learn what ever relevant for us.
they might have done the relevant 'research' on this particular reaction or action or nature of people. including Scientific and Pshycological surveys and studies.
such things lead our minds towards thinking and learning something such things may add some things to develop our theories we are planing to improve, we can do something to avoid such situations' -
i know that people do not do it purposely because it is a natural action or a reaction of a human body that reacts that way to certain situations, moods, of mind and body. Animals are different to human creatures i have never get a chance to observe them therefore i have nothing to note here.
i like to windup my note noting my following thought of the day ...........
lets get together and work
naangal ontrag velai selvom and Ennal mudiyum
api okkoma ekata ekathu wee weda karamu
( SPECIAL THANKS GOES TO MR. SRI RANGANATHAN for teaching Tamil words)
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