Whether it is aaaaararo ariraro or onna babo ethinniya it is not what really matters

what really matters is how you look after your child. 

Lullabies shows no ethnic differences or language differences . The child care specialists do not tell you different methods to look after children of different ethnic groups or children of different communities. They do not say, this is how you should look after an English Child, this is how you should look after a Dutch Child, this is how you should look after a Sri Lankan Child, this is how you should look after a French Child , an Indian Child, they say this is how you should take care of your child. Yes it is true you need to understand the socio cultural perspectives of the communities you live to understand the families or the society you live, that would give you better motivation or better understanding when you begin to socialize your child , during the process of 'socialization' 

other than such things 'child is a child', no definition can demand the real meaning of childhood or child

child is an universal property , wealth of entire world, though often we hear they called children of slums, dogs but the world now know they are millionaires in knowledge 

The society has a huge responsibility over any child and creating a complete child, a child toward a better adulthood, it is not just a responsibility of their parents or teachers.

a child should have the every right to enjoy their childhood in its pure , fullest way. The outer or inner society cannot really steal the right of child of hazard free childhood

Childhood is not about feeding or giving formal education what about his right to live without any fear of any social or any other harassment

Jaffna is a city slowly rejuvenating from a night mare called 'terror', i do not know how Jaffna describes it though. i do not know whether they have any other definitions. But i do know majority of Jaffna believes ' Flowers blooming are not red or blood spotted these days' , they have their original colour shades.

yet, it is sad to know the people of Jaffna do not have time to look after the buds, the children, do not know whether they are engaged more in other activities 'claiming other rights , aiming at their other dreams 'other than thinking of their children'

it is no point becoming arrogant afterwards 

i read the editorial of Divaina ( 22/ 05/ 2015) allocated for the little child , Vindya and for the incident happened.

i believe that it is true the civilians do not have the right to say 'what to do', when it comes to something related to law and order of a society. Specifically about a society where you find a specific governing system other than the social laws specific to their societies, other than the social norms and values, taboos etc.

we do not have panchayak sabha  system in this country. The Village headman do not have the right to give solutions or decisions , though they are informal leaders who helps to look after the law and order of the society. There is a certain system in this society established and everything is written in books as well.

so either a governor nor a local politician given right to say ' do as we say'. The politicians are not the sole decision makers of the societies. They are under the laws and order of the society. They are given certain power to work within the given or described power frame. It depends on the position they hold. 

I do not think that the society or the needs anybody who just preach but no plan to look after their tiny provincials, morally and ethically, culturally. The people need no leaders who just scream after any incident happened but do not think of implementing any programmes to improve their 'social standards, safe guard their cultural demands other than consulting the leaders next door during theit tiny health ailments such as cough or cold, for aches and pains.

i am trying to memorize of any leader who have come up with any plans to protect the culturures , the demands and values of the people of Jaffna other than screaming giving wrong pictures to outer world.

Think of promoting 'one blood, one country, one flag' theory of living. Then you, we all can protect 'the child of this country'

And the other thing is when a specific system is established to protect peace and harmony of that society ' the civilians are not given right to handle situations though as humans they often behave aggressively. but that is socially and even lawfully Unacceptable

i personally cursed them, the rapists silently while reading the editorial. unfortunately i do not have ability to control myself in certain situations automatically certain words comes in to my thinking panel. 

Dear honorable Judges should give the decision as soon as possible not only to punish the victims but also to calm the society

i am not going to compare the society now and then with this and that but i have a feeling that such incidents might  lead to frighten not only the kids but also the parents.

But remember The SOLDIER is not your enemy if you do not understand it,who would? 

It is truly sad specially if you are a Sri Lankan who experienced the terror fear more than three decades

i like to know what Mr. Samnandhan have in his future list of working for the benefit of the people of this country, to uplift the moral and educational values of the children of this country, What Plans he has to protect and improve, enhance the cultures we have other than doing politics on his own way

'Open Your Eyes', says Vindya the little BUD, and taught the entire world a lesson, don't you think so?