‘The Gossip Girls’

I was thinking of something fresh to write. The spice girls came into my mind, all of a sudden. Perhaps that is because it is raining outside, in Nugegoda, Sri Lanka. Rain often brings spicy feelings mixed with wet thoughts.  The spice girls; they are music lovers. One of them fell in love with football, right? Spice and music, isn’t that a good mixture supports a healthy life?

What do you think about ‘music and gossip’? I like music but I hate gossip.

I am a Barbie girl

In the Barbie world

Above is one of the famous songs sung by the spice girls.

Here is my version,

Listen! Dear ones,

Listen! near ones,

Listen! dear friends,

I am a human being

In the human world

Made of flesh and blood

Respect human beings ……

send this message across the globe

There are groups of girls famous but I assume not fond of gossip.

Three sisters, Indraniperera and her two sisters, became very famous not because they engaged in searching what others are doing, with whom others (men or women) sleep, but they searched about and learned music and sang good songs lasts for generations. Even young generations of today, do not ignore their music but wholeheartedly embracing their music quotes, melodies and songs.

Gossip very, very rarely saves lives of human beings such helps warn human beings to stay away from hazards, various. But gossip has the ability to ruin lives of most human beings.  The danger is that some nothing about the person they talk of this and that but pick and choose something from this corner and that corner of someone and spread gossip without thinking too much or taking it as something that brings them joy and happiness. Gossip seekers, gossip spreaders are oppressors. They use it as a tool to torture men and women they hate or do not like.

Today, searching for gossip and using them as they please has become an earn a living for some. such brings them some rupees, packet of food items etc.

Interesting thing is that they, the gossip seekers know nothing about what is happening inside their households until an issue become massive or unsolvable.  They spend their time to get information via various sources, via various modern tools, currently using around the world and try interfering human lives. My question is who has given them right to use such tools to monitor lives of others and enter privacy lives of them. Now, I can assure the world that I do not break or violate any rules because I do not hack the computers of others, do not have tapped the telephone lines of others, I do not monitor the lives of others using modern technology. Then, what should I do? I have been thinking about this matter, since about half a decade. I do not know who has the power to do so and who doesn’t have that power? Who has given it a legalise shape? Searching for gossip and throw whatever they have towards the faces of the innocent is the power tool some own. 

some Seeking for Gossips, using them to tarnish or harm one's life. I am sure that they too are aware of the side affects such things. Gossips, directly and indirectly, affects the mental health of human beings. Do you agree? psychiatrists, doctors? 

Who is willing to compensate for the damages done?

Can you rehabilitate the damages, harm done to brains and mental health of a person by using gossip, facts related to someone to insult a person or to torture someone? 

Who is willing to investigate such things? Who is ready to estimate the damage, the harm is done to brains and minds of someone because of gossips they, whoever spreads? Dear doctors, Can you, implant brain cells damaged by gossipers? What if something happens to hearts of someone, if face threat of heart failures, heart attacks because of such gossippers, due to unbearable torture?

So beware of gossip girls, good girls, this is my advice for you.

Gossip has no gender difference. ‘Gossip boys’ have the same characteristics discussed above. That is why I didn’t talk about them.

It is still raining outside. No clouds or stars to be seen. The  Wesak full moon poya day, yet to be arrived in the country and in the world. The International Wesak Festival to be held in Sri Lanka. I think everything is ready for the festival.

May all beings be healthy! and happy! that is my wesak wishes for the entire world!