On HOME tenderly ................................

What is a home really?

Is it just a basement / building?

Is it just a place where you can sleep without getting wet from the rain?

Is it a place where you can stay without facing any hazards ‘ storms, lightening ,thunder, think of any other that you think are hazards and then add them to the list.

Each and everyone of you certainly have your own definitions, assumptions  theories or ways of measuring or weighing this term 'home'. i am not aware of any universal definition.  'universality of any definition certainly rely or depend on ones level of understanding within and how you  measure, how you build it, what materials you choose for your building 

the sole owner, planner, designer has the sole right to decide what to be used , when to built, how to be designed, it is you who should decide how to build this term 'home' not the building home, whether you only choose trust, understanding, love and protection to build your home as highly recommend materials or you just use the suggestions given by others. one should design and plan his/her home not according to the suggestions of others always. outsiders never can build a home of someone.  any building should be away from unnecessary interference

what is important size of the building or the size of the hearts and minds of the residents? 

it is no easy at all to build a home   

flexibility and adaptability and adjust ability all these are important , right

Is patience a highly recommend type of brick or is it a best branded cement?

I don't know to define this term home accurately therefore i always have questions only i don't think that this essay will be a balance or a accurate analysis

  

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l=re¿ l+vjlao úh - yelS

Njkla yd iu úh  - yelS

ksjila hkq lsu  - ilS

What is the true meaning of laying a foundation?

What important the walls holds?

The roof?

Dinning and kitchen

The living and privacy rooms

Wash rooms / sanitary areas

Let me first think of the foundation of a home / building

I think, these things that I am going to elaborate today even a homeless can understand.  ‘there is no novelty in the idea that I have chosen to discuss today.  This topic, ‘home’ is  decades, centuries, continents, suburbs, worldly ‘old’ topic.

I have no idea as to when the word has entered in to the vocabulary of human

The word is as old as the history or the creation of man

So the topic isn't new, friends

I think initially one needed a home to protect from natural hazards / disasters

When the term became little modern, day by day, people started thinking of the term in a different way, in a much broader way, in every sense /meaning of the word, in different angles , according to various subjects. People started analyzing according to their corners of eyes, their points of views

In sciences, in the terms of engineering, archaeology, sociology, art and crafts, numerologists, building constructors / contractors  - constructions / within the frame works of psychology, according  to the understanding of husband and a wife, children, neighboours, relatives, scholars, friends , the term ‘home’ is discussed differently and their own ways.

I don’t think that they, all look at this term, describe, analyze, in a similar, same way. No

They have their own frame works when analyzing this term

For a mason what is the importance of laying a foundation correctly or accurately?

It is not just something that shows ones skills or abilities expertise in laying good foundations

It is a matter of his job too

If a mason is not be able to lay a good foundation others definitely questions the job he holds

Will the others give him any other contracts there after?

Then they question his/their talents

And the most harmful that they spread the message around, village, city, town, country etc

That is no good

The mason should know ‘what quantity, in what quality he has to choose his materials – building

Trust building is very different to building a ‘building’

A house, it is only the structures or the buildings any expert can build, building the rest solely depends on its members, in the hands, hearts, minds and brains of the members who reside within

There are planners for homes / buildings

A plan is a must

Then the plan should be approved by the authorities

They give the person who carries hopes of a home, their ideas, some approves some rejects

That is the nature of planning a building and then getting an approval.

Every good and accurate plan can assure the approval but other ones normally rejects, no assurance of approvals

The contractor/s add their ideas and suggestions on roofing materials, the type of cement, what brick to be chosen, what floor tiles or wall tiles are better or in good quality

In short every one gives their own suggestions and definitions

For a homeless ‘the term home is a hope

For a woman / wife / mother ‘she holds her own opinions on the term ‘home’

And for men they too hold their own views

I don’t know how children see this term

What is the use of a building with no proper foundation?

Such buildings collapse easily such buildings have no long lasting outer or inner shapes

One has to spend his/her money intelligently specially when they laying the foundation

It is no point spending all what you have earned for walls or to buy bricks that has no proper, strong foundation

What you invest initially, for your home is immeasurably important

Some build their houses section by section

Some I know wait for years to build their walls after laying foundations

That happens due to various reasons but I guess the big reason is ‘lack of money’ nothing else.

Both physical and mental health of its members is truly important that leads any home properly.  Such things play the role of the fuel

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iekiqu tys fndfyda we;S

i;=rka th jki;S

Yla;sh tys Tn úh hq;=

ksjkg ks.ukhg ks;s /ljrfKg

jdihg jdisáhg jqj hdug tug

iúh o iyfko i,i;s tlúg

The term love plays an important role in building where both your heart and mind reside and that is the most efficient mode of ‘security tool of this universe that one can choose to fix in any home from the gate to every corner of the home frame

No other fence, friend can protect your home if your home is not protected from this highly secure and highly strong bond

I don’t think that this is a very good analysis and I don’t think that one can give any universal accurate definition on this term one can look at this term in a multi million ways any analysis become mature or proper when a heart and mind get stronger and mature 

Take care