Wednesday, February 27, 2013
The Most Preferred words- Courage and Encouragement
The WORDS I believe, is a BRIDGE of building relationships. The words are the ferrymen that bring the passengers from this ashore to the other with love and honesty and with kindness. Let me try to explain it in another way, the art of using word is ‘poetry’ I believe. The words is an instrument own by the amazing creatures of the world, the writers, the poets, they have the power or the authority to deal with the words and with the people. There are some words that I like very much than the words that hurts people or my loved ones. COURAGE and ENCOURAGE are two of the words that I like to hear all the time than any other words. Yes of course except the amazing , magical four letter word that even the little ones like to hear from their parents or the parents like to hear it from their kids and I do not think that will have to explain that who else is like to hear this and from whom?. For some such words are forgotten words for some such words are memorable words or embraceable words and for a one or two or for few such words are feet aching because of walking from this place to that place of wings of life.
I know that it is not easy to develop courage within human mind but for some it flawlessly or flowfully comes and it is also not easy to learn to encourage. I guess people have their own ways of explaining understanding these or those words. Apart from its literary or technical meanings or understandings people have their own ways of categorizing words or in using them they show some differences. Some words are very much related to ones personal life. To deal with your day today life you need to have courage. Sometimes you have to face unexpected problems such as health issues or any, one can name or can not name, common to all or limited to some issues. The level of encouragements that one may produce from their own within for their own good or for the benefit of others is differ from person to person. For a few, any, many or all encouragement is a positive feeling that they release to the outer world then one may anytime can embrace to stay away from discouragement or discouraging preparations.
Maintaining ‘encouragement’ or at least try to gain it from anywhere or from the places that it always possible to gain or comes as packages or luggage are not always impossible. There are people, worldwide that always think of not letting down, pulling backwards ‘always muttering hey you are a woman/man that have this and that of issues therefore you never will come out of the situations you are in but look the we enjoy life we have no urinary or stomach or any psycho social issues no never economic we can afford to pay for any or many things some say such things to the ones that they really do not care but not forgetting to keep their own dear and near ones on top ( this is not bad one must always encourage their loved ones when ever they do engage in something good . For some such things I am not encouraging.
What can one do when they have the feeling, perceptions, attitude of no courage to deal with the situations that they are in ? There are certain days that you can not ask help even from a relative they may have many important things, major to attend even if they can help you for one or two times can you expect help from them forever unless he or she is your life partner or from a close person.
You have to have courage to encourage someone. The day you lose your COURAGE you will lose everything. The lessons you learn in your day to day life can sometimes give you courage and a hope to live. COURAGE I still have to face the ones that come and say before me or from behind do things from behind I can face I am not a failure no I am not a victor either there are things that I still have to learn how to pick and choose things from a garmental or governmental outlets, fancy outlets, from the word manufactures, word dictionaries, bibliographies, no way I can read their faces but the things that they revel or express places and people. Therefore I am not yet a victor or a successor, winner but I may can reach up to that level but never never or ever harming ones inner side or outer side of life because I know how hurting such things are.
Yes some certainly collate courage from every lesson that they learn at any cost. Some people do not have courage to admire or appreciate other people’s good desires of doing good things, Intelligence, skills, talents, and all the other good qualities of the people that belong to ‘not dear or near ones or loved or beloved categories of people. And remember at the same time some people do not have COURAGE to accept their weaknesses; jealousy, arrogance, dishonesty, and all other bad human qualities but some I believe always have the courage to point the finger at other people.
IF you hurt anyone he or she will lose courage or faith in them. Don’t let them worry too much please ENCOURAGE them to live happily whatever problems may arise in their life. Whether it is related to love or tears, money or trust, why worry or lose your courage of something that others don’t accept or believe and has no value at all? You have to have courage to forget even if they ignore you, show you how invaluable you are compared to the ones they know from childhood or from their trade or social or cultural close dealings or if they do not accept what ever the good things you do for them. Even if they do not Please don’t hesitate to tell them or others what ever you feel good about them. Remember you have to have courage to do so this will applicable to any relationship you maintain friendly or opposite. You have to have COURAGE to deal honestly in any relationship you maintain Some I believe, no doubt have the COURAGE to protect their loved ones forever I am sure you can ENCOURAGE the people who have loads of COURAGE in what ever the work they engage in. Do you think that you have the courage to do so? ……….
An ENCOURAGEMENT would give you a hope to live a hope in everything you do.
We, people make mistakes that is natural, still, please encourage the people who try to change themselves by choosing the correct path, street or avenue in what they do please do not discourage the kids when they break all the toys and things that they get as gifts from their parents to see how the inner sides have been formulated then they might take such learning things their own ways towards a good or worldly important innovations. Encourage your kids and kids of others, students yours and of all this and that of all universities when they come up with new ideas and innovations it is not that you are discouraging your people but you need to do it more but in a very careful manner. The armatures of all kind Even during the ears that you encounter that few or some do not have courage to encourage people of that kind please at least use your words in a very careful manner ………
Life is full of new adventures, full of unexpected situations events, suddenly come in different picture or an image real or unreal unbelievably expected or unexpected ways before you in many different forms. Sometimes you have to ‘think before you leap’ what do you think do you think that I m trying to discourage you? ………. No, Never….. I have no COURAGE to do so……..
Sometimes I have no COURAGE to listen to other people when someone says ‘you are wrong’ or if someone says ‘STOP THIS’ when I m doing something wrong to someone or harassing someone by disturbing continuously when they are engaged in some other important work fortunately I still have the COURAGE to understand those weaknesses at least later. Now how do you feel? Feel like encouraging me though I am not near or dear like your sister, brother, friend that is a sign of a good human being
Some people have to have COURAGE to ENCOURAGE other people in every good thing they do even if they do not belong to the list of their loved ones Fortunately our people, mighty soldiers of all three forces, with the help of our giant hands of the president Mahinda Rajapaksa, including the defense secretary of Sri Lanka had saved enough COURAGE to fight against the LTTE yes, I know what you are thinking right now Not every one went to the battle field I was trying to say that the whole country morally and emotionally was with the team and tried to ENCOURAGE the team every possible way The people of our country know that pretending is and really doing something is totally different.
And we the Sri Lankans are very happy about the COURAGE that they all had until they achieve their target. Every time I see them on TV I noticed how brave they are and how brave when they talk about their achievements they never said anything to discourage their nation or their colleague soldiers.
Sometimes you watch nice stage dramas, television dramas, films of all kinds but you do not know or see the people behind the success of these things Some I believe do not notice the names of these people even if it appears on the screens There were also some other people who had the courage to encourage all those who were in the battle field inside country and the people worldwide. That is media, the newspapers, the writers, mass media. Human beings are generally of that kind they forget things very easily. the courageous writers wrote each and everything to save and encourage our people. They use all the words possible to do so
I know that we have enough media personalities including the writers who have loads of courage to fight bravely against those enemies outside country. They have written enough of them and I know that they have not finished fighting I believe their pens still have enough inks to do so But sooner or later few of the local enemies or the other enemies will have to accept their faults. I hope that one day they will develop courage within them and accept their faults and have the courage to say SORRY. I am sure all the kind hearted people across this Island will encourage them and thank them for saying s.
I am amazed and I personally believe that most of our country personalities have the courage to fight against the international big people who damage or tarnish our country’s reputation with out thinking about safety of their lives including the writers of our era I m sure our people still have the COURAGE TO SALUTE TO THOSE WHO WENT TO BATTLE FIELD WITH COURAGE AND THOSE WHO STAYED IN COLOMBO AND FOUGHT ALONE AGAINST EACH AND EVERY PERSON WHO TRIED TO COME BLOCKING THEIR WAY even without getting any recognition for their contribution But it is sad that some people have the courage to accept the awards or the trophies that were given to them with out even stepping to areas that they should be visiting.
YOU have I have, they have we all have some encouragement abilities that we should be maintaining or should be promoting within and then releasing them to the outer world we live.
Have an encouraging day !