The WORDS I
believe, is a BRIDGE of building relationships. The words are the ferrymen that
bring the passengers from this ashore to the other with love and honesty and
with kindness. Let me try to explain it in another way, the art of using word is
‘poetry’ I believe. The words is an instrument own by the amazing creatures of
the world, the writers, the poets, they have the power or the authority to deal
with the words and with the people. There
are some words that I like very much than the words that hurts people or my
loved ones. COURAGE and ENCOURAGE are two of the words that I like to hear all
the time than any other words. Yes of course except the amazing , magical four
letter word that even the little ones like to hear from their parents or the
parents like to hear it from their kids and I do not think that will have to
explain that who else is like to hear this and from whom?. For some such words
are forgotten words for some such words are memorable words or embraceable
words and for a one or two or for few such words are feet aching because of
walking from this place to that place of wings of life.
I know that it is
not easy to develop courage within human mind but for some it flawlessly or flowfully
comes and it is also not easy to learn to encourage. I guess people have their
own ways of explaining understanding these or those words. Apart from its
literary or technical meanings or understandings people have their own ways of
categorizing words or in using them they show some differences. Some words are
very much related to ones personal life. To deal
with your day today life you need to have courage. Sometimes you have to face
unexpected problems such as health issues or any, one can name or can not name,
common to all or limited to some issues. The level of encouragements that one
may produce from their own within for their own good or for the benefit of
others is differ from person to person. For a few, any, many or all encouragement
is a positive feeling that they release to the outer world then one may anytime
can embrace to stay away from discouragement or discouraging preparations.
Maintaining ‘encouragement’
or at least try to gain it from anywhere or from the places that it always
possible to gain or comes as packages or luggage are not always impossible. There
are people, worldwide that always think of not letting down, pulling backwards ‘always
muttering hey you are a woman/man that have this and that of issues therefore
you never will come out of the situations you are in but look the we enjoy life
we have no urinary or stomach or any psycho social issues no never economic we
can afford to pay for any or many things some say such things to the ones that
they really do not care but not forgetting to keep their own dear and near ones
on top ( this is not bad one must always encourage their loved ones when ever
they do engage in something good . For some such things I am not encouraging.
What can one do when
they have the feeling, perceptions, attitude of no courage to deal with the
situations that they are in ? There are certain days that you can not ask help
even from a relative they may have many important things, major to attend even
if they can help you for one or two times
can you expect help from them
forever unless he or she is your life partner or from a close person.
You have to have
courage to encourage someone. The day you lose your COURAGE you will lose
everything. The lessons you learn in your day to day life can sometimes give
you courage and a hope to live. COURAGE I still have to face the ones that come
and say before me or from behind do things from behind I can face I am not a
failure no I am not a victor either there are things that I still have to learn
how to pick and choose things from a garmental or governmental outlets, fancy
outlets, from the word manufactures, word dictionaries, bibliographies, no way I
can read their faces but the things that they revel or express places and
people. Therefore I am not yet a victor or a successor, winner but I may can
reach up to that level but never never or ever harming ones inner side or outer
side of life because I know how hurting such things are.
Yes some
certainly collate courage from every lesson that they learn at any cost. Some
people do not have courage to admire or appreciate other people’s good desires
of doing good things, Intelligence, skills, talents, and all the other good
qualities of the people that belong to ‘not dear or near ones or loved or
beloved categories of people. And remember at the same time some people do not
have COURAGE to accept their weaknesses; jealousy, arrogance, dishonesty, and all other bad human qualities but some I
believe always have the courage to point the finger at other people.
IF you hurt
anyone he or she will lose courage or faith in them. Don’t let them worry too much please ENCOURAGE
them to live happily whatever problems may arise in their life. Whether it is
related to love or tears, money or trust, why worry or lose your courage of
something that others don’t accept or believe and has no value at all? You have
to have courage to forget even if they ignore you, show you how invaluable you
are compared to the ones they know from childhood or from their trade or social
or cultural close dealings or if they do not accept what ever the good things
you do for them. Even if they do not Please don’t hesitate to tell them or
others what ever you feel good about them. Remember you have to have courage to
do so this will applicable to any relationship you maintain friendly or
opposite. You have to have COURAGE to
deal honestly in any relationship you maintain Some I believe, no doubt have
the COURAGE to protect their loved ones forever I am sure you can ENCOURAGE the
people who have loads of COURAGE in what ever the work they engage in. Do you
think that you have the courage to do so? ……….
An ENCOURAGEMENT
would give you a hope to live a hope in everything you do.
We, people make
mistakes that is natural, still, please encourage the people who try to change
themselves by choosing the correct path, street or avenue in what they do please
do not discourage the kids when they break all the toys and things that they
get as gifts from their parents to see how the inner sides have been formulated
then they might take such learning
things their own ways towards a good or worldly important innovations. Encourage
your kids and kids of others, students yours and of all this and that of all
universities when they come up with new ideas and innovations it is not that
you are discouraging your people but you need to do it more but in a very
careful manner. The armatures of all kind Even during the ears that you
encounter that few or some do not have courage to encourage people of that kind
please at least use your words in a very careful manner ………
Life is full of
new adventures, full of unexpected situations events, suddenly come in different
picture or an image real or unreal unbelievably expected or unexpected ways
before you in many different forms. Sometimes
you have to ‘think before you leap’ what do you think do you think that I m
trying to discourage you? ………. No, Never….. I have no COURAGE to do so……..
Sometimes I have
no COURAGE to listen to other people when someone says ‘you are wrong’ or if
someone says ‘STOP THIS’ when I m doing something wrong to someone or harassing
someone by disturbing continuously when they are engaged in some other important
work fortunately I still have the COURAGE
to understand those weaknesses at least later. Now how do you feel? Feel like encouraging me though
I am not near or dear like your sister, brother, friend that is a sign of a good
human being
Some people have
to have COURAGE to ENCOURAGE other people in every good thing they do even if
they do not belong to the list of their loved ones Fortunately our people,
mighty soldiers of all three forces, with the help of our giant hands of the
president Mahinda Rajapaksa, including the defense secretary of Sri Lanka had
saved enough COURAGE to fight against the LTTE yes, I know what you are
thinking right now Not every one went to
the battle field I was trying to say
that the whole country morally and
emotionally was with the team and tried to ENCOURAGE the team every possible
way The people of our country know that pretending is and really doing
something is totally different.
And we the Sri
Lankans are very happy about the COURAGE that they all had until they achieve
their target. Every time I see them on TV I noticed how brave they are and how
brave when they talk about their achievements they never said anything to
discourage their nation or their colleague soldiers.
Sometimes you
watch nice stage dramas, television dramas, films of all kinds but you do not know
or see the people behind the success of these things Some I believe do not
notice the names of these people even if it appears on the screens There were also some other people who had the
courage to encourage all those who were in the battle field inside country and
the people worldwide. That is media, the newspapers, the writers, mass media.
Human beings are generally of that kind they forget things very easily. the
courageous writers wrote each and everything to save and encourage our people. They
use all the words possible to do so
I know that we have enough media personalities
including the writers who have loads of courage to fight bravely against those
enemies outside country. They have written enough of them and I know that they
have not finished fighting I believe their pens still have enough inks to do so
But sooner or later few of the local enemies or the other enemies will have to
accept their faults. I hope that one day they will develop courage within them
and accept their faults and have the courage to say SORRY. I am sure all the kind hearted people across
this Island will encourage them and thank them for saying s.
I am amazed and I
personally believe that most of our
country personalities have the courage to fight against the international big
people who damage or tarnish our country’s reputation with out thinking about
safety of their lives including the writers of our era I m sure our people
still have the COURAGE TO SALUTE TO THOSE WHO WENT TO BATTLE FIELD WITH
COURAGE AND THOSE WHO STAYED IN COLOMBO AND FOUGHT ALONE AGAINST EACH AND EVERY
PERSON WHO TRIED TO COME BLOCKING THEIR WAY even without getting any recognition
for their contribution But it is sad that some people have the courage to
accept the awards or the trophies that were given to them with out even
stepping to areas that they should be visiting.
YOU have I have,
they have we all have some encouragement abilities that we should be
maintaining or should be promoting within and then releasing them to the outer world we
live.
Have an
encouraging day !
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